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GregariousBend

39 M Bend, OR

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jun 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE
After these horrible experiences I feel I can no longer continue with this site.
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I really need a woman who has kindness in her heart, a heart of gold. I have some neurological issues where I am forgetful and making silly mistakes like misspelling simple words or occasionally forgetting where I park. Also I was recently tested I they found I have Aspergers I have met some real douchebags, one who was a Grammar Nazi and they thought my poor grammar was enough to end talking with me, she lived several states away I just wanted to be friends because of common interests. Also a woman who ended a relationship because I did not answer one of her questions out of the other 3 she asked. Instead of being a normal person and reminding me she lashed out at me.
Its hurts that I can just type something on the fly now, I have to carefully proofread everything and even that might not be enough. That means no more texting on the phone and having issues with auto spelling correct or hitting the wrong key. Since I have given up on online dating I finally feel it does not matter that I talk about my condition now. I am now just going on recommendations from friends. I know there are good woman out there its just that all of them are married or in long term relationships. But they make great friends. I find that I am more happy around my married female friends.
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I am little depressed looking for love in my 30s. Most of my friends tell me that I should avoid any woman in her 30s or older. According to them if she still has not found anyone most likely she has issues . I disagree with them because in high school some of the most unstable girls I met were in high school and college but so were the best women I have met. These wonderful women married early and stayed happily married while the girls I could not stand (they were some of the most rudest and stuck up) are still single or have been divorced from what my high school and college friends tell me. So I do worry the best women have been taken.
If your still interested I am willing to chat and meet you but I am wanting to be friends first no matter if you like it or not.
Check the very bottom of my profile to see what I am looking for.

Even if your not interested in me but a good person who had some bad luck in running across horrible partners check these sites out, you may find them useful. Good people don't deserve to be in bad relationships.
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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At this moment I have joined some organizations. I am excited about this group http://www.highdesertmakermill.org/ and another group that builds new products based on this electrical board http://www.arduino.cc/. It feels like the early 80s when the general public first really started to get into computers resulting in some people to start their own businesses some becoming Microsoft and Apple. In the summer I grow a garden, hike take nature photography.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-being patient
-show empathy
- appreciating your interests and hobbies
-going with the flow
- can have a conversation about anything
- looking at things from someone's else point of view, that includes willing to try things you enjoy. But if I feel we are not a match, regardless of how nice and attractive you are, that I realize am not the guy for you and that our relationship would fall apart no matter what I do. So I know when to let go and not waste your time
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. They are blue. It amazes women would choose a guy over that even women with brown eyes choosing blue.
They often tell me how laid back I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Too many movies to list, I like foreign, Sci-Fi, true drama and movies that make you think.
Mostly like Non-Fiction books.
Like all kinds of music

Love all sorts of food. My favorites in Bend are Deschutes brewery and Brother Jon's.
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Books, my way learing the world around me.
- A home where I can relax
- hiking in the outdoors
- music
- some kind of pet
- sadly the internet but depends how you use it, there is a great wealth of info out there, you just have to know how to weed out the BS. Some sites I have read are more in depth then newspapers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living my life to the fullest.
My interests
Making life simpler
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Changes all the time. Sometimes its doing something with friends on the town or sometimes alone listening to music or watching a movie, Every few months where I work they change the work schedules so sometimes Fridays are not the last day of work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will talk about the baggage I carry in my life. Even though I rarely ate sweets and stayed away from fatty foods I had horrible acne from late elementary school to 11th grade. In elementary I endured harassment and ridicule from girls because of it that made me very shy around women. Only toward the end of high school did it start to go away unfortunately by that time most of the girls had some they were dating or had plans to move away and start a new life. I considered my education more important to get a decent job, whats the point looking for love when you don't have your own place to live with no roommates. By the time I started looking I found it was much harder because most jobs I worked at had few women and the place where I lived had no nightlife. Did not help that the town had few women.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I go by what works with my happily married friends on what works.
1. They enjoy doing things together, fun or chores.
2. Be calm in stressful situations. I have known women to leave or abuse their husbands and boyfriends when things got tough.
3. Able to see from someones point of view
4.I want someone who can be real and able to tell me their passions in life.

If your a smoker, have tattoos,have usually piercings, more than just a social drinker, the type of woman who was rebellious and breaking rules in her youth; mostly likely your are not going to have interest in a guy like me. I have nothing against people like that, just doing you a favor.

I don't care what you look like as long as your not a meth head or it shows you have done a lot of drugs. Also I will not date obese women, they tend to have other issues besides weight issues and I need someone who can at least be able to hike. So a little overweight is not bad. I tend to avoid women under 5 foot 4 because seems like everyone of them has some Napoleon complex.

I realize most of the women on this site have some sort of issues, it just depends if they are ones I can work with. If you have some sort of aspergers, your really shy or just lack some social skill that is not a big deal and I can work with that. What I will not deal with is anger issues, being bi-polar including mania and narcissism, I often find the last two closely related. Also I am very good at detecting narcissists they always give away some hints after a date or two. I might even consider a non sexual relationship if your asexual but it becomes even more important that we become really good friends and have common interests.

Even though my female friends and sister are very protective of me I promise they won't interfere. I myself will check to see if you are on http://bendmugshots.com/ to see if you have a criminal background. I might also check the sex questions to make sure your not some sick pervert or someone that likes to cause harm.