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36 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Afrikaans (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a South African / Aussie guy that's just returned from a mega overseas adventure. I've been away for over 2 years, and working my way through the readjustment period... I'm thinking that meeting a nice girl to smooth out the transition could be just what the doctor ordered.

Think you can handle that responsibility? Don't worry, it won't be difficult... I'll even hold your hand through the process ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Since returning home a few of months ago, everything seems to be coming up trumps for me. I've scored an awesome job (well as good as it's going to get in my current industry, though I'm working towards a more people-focussed career change in the not-too-distant future); I've moved into an amazing house in Thornbury (and upgraded my previous housemate to an even more awesome new housie); I've had some amazing life-changing experiences; I'm having a great time reconnecting with old friends and exploring this wonderful city all over again... overall things are falling into place perfectly.

All that's missing now is a partner in crime. I've set the groundwork, made space in my life, ensured everything is in place and ready to roll... so why not take the plunge and get in touch? You won't be dissappointed - I'm pretty awesome. Modest too, can't you tell? haha
I’m really good at
Conversation. Intimacy. Honesty. Yoga. Procrastination. Dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
Good question, I really have no idea. Maybe my overall laid-back vibe. Why not arrange to meet me, and you can tell me what you first notice about me. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here's a few:

Shantaram, Game of Thrones series, A million little pieces, Ishmael, Confessions of an Economic Hitman, 100 Year Old Man Steps Out of a Window and Dissappears, Technical books, Travel guides, A Fine Balance, HitchHikers Guide to the Galaxy series, Tibetan Book of Living and Dying.

- Indie: Vampire Weekend, Mumford & Sons, Boy & Bear, Broken Bells, Daniel Luppi & Danger Mouse, Cloud Control, The Naked & Famous, Phoenix, ...
- Electronic: Moderat, Trentemoller, Gui Boratto, Ticon, Minilogue, Hallucinogen, Shpongle, Ott, Perfect Stranger, Thievery Corporation, Tosca, Kruder & Dorfmeister, ...
- Rock/Pop: The Black Keys, Bob Marley, Radiohead, Gotye, Empire of the Sun, MGMT, The National, Nick Cave, Florence & The Machine
- Spiritual/ Meditation: Tibetan Llama chanting music, Donna De Lory, All sorts of native chanting - loving the emotive power they exude when they sing/chant.

TV Shows:
- True Detective, Breaking Bad, Boston Legal, Californication, Game of Thrones, Justified, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Sopranos, Weeds, Corner Gas, Green Wing, Black Mirror

- Thai Food, Indian Food, Mexican Food, Anything spicy :)

- Baraka, Samsara, Documentaries, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Inception, Donnie Darko, Anchorman, The Big Lebowski, Blow, District 9, Coen Brothers, Tarantino, Pixar, Fight Club, Amelie, Into the Wild, Human Traffic, Before Sunrise/Sunset/Midnight, Motorcycle Diaries, Monty Python, Her, so many more but i think i'll draw the line there. Come over and check out my movie collection sometime - it's pretty huge.
The six things I could never do without
Family and friends
Great food
Good music
Something to look forward to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I'm on the right path or not. But I'm learning to just go with the flow and trust in the universe and it's ultimate plan for me.

Oh, and my next big travel adventure is always on my mind. Currently it's a mini one - riding a motorcycle from the South to the North of Vietnam in July. Can't wait :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing at home after a long and exhausting week, or maybe catching up with family or friends for dinner and a drink. There's space in there for new activities with somebody special ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The past few months have been the most enlightening times of my life. Lots of deep soul-searching which is really opening me up to my true self, and I really love to share that with everybody around me. Live and love and grow together - that's what it's all about, right?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you like what you see and would like to meet me. I work in the city & live in the inner-north, but happy to meet up anywhere... so let's hook up sometime.