I will start this off by saying that I am happily getting married to the love of my life and partner Aeaf. We have a non-traditional partnership that is defined mostly by communication. Since people on this website seem to have a thick fascination with labels I would guess our relationship would be called open relationship. I think I saw a flowchart about this a while ago that describes in its own special way how these labels don’t always fit in a box.
So back to the topic at hand. Originally I had written here “I'm a geeky guy who likes to hang out with friends” but on some level I guess that lacks the depth of what makes up me. I am geeky, for sure, with an IT diploma and a career as a sysadmin and software engineer. I grew up playing D&D and wouldn’t think twice about jumping right back into a game (hints!). I tend to be more sensitive than others, and have enough empathy that it shakes my own emotions when someone else gets upset around me. I hide it rather well, unless you know me.
I love electronic music, play video games, play board games with my friends, read science fiction and fantasy, go to festivals… and I know more than I probably should about liquor (definitely craft beer). I am made up of so many different interests that I would find it incredibly difficult to drop myself into one category. What I could say is that I like to have fun and to enjoy life. I am a doer, someone who will make entertainment for myself and make my own world fun when I need it.
I am on this website with my partner to meet new people for hanging out, going on dates, or other types of fun. We are together or apart for the right people. (polyamorous)