I am an adventurous, intellectual hedonist who is looking to expand his circle of close relationships and social friends. I am looking for meaningful relationships. The exact flavor of those is open to negotiation.
I am a clear communicator who is able to explore complex emotions honestly.
I have a pile of education and experience in spirituality. If you're looking to expand your horizons or resolve deep conflicts, I'm happy to participate. I consider myself agnostic and spiritual.
I am a royal nerd. By that I mean if there is any topic you dork out to, we probably share it.
I'm active and enjoy running, tennis and general exploring. I ride sport motorcycles and mountain bikes. I actively participate in organized sports. I game frequently and diversely. I love to dance and entertain.
I'm the sort of person who understands other people and why they feel the way they do, even when I strongly disagree. This was an essential skill growing up in West Michigan as a budding liberal.
I am a sex-positive feminist/profeminist. Bonus points if you can elucidate the difference between feminist and profeminist and make an argument for either. I am a LGBTQ ally.
I'm married to Hansel_gr. I'm open to romance in a polyfidelitous setting, with a MFF triad being my top preference.
I have had committed poly partnerships before. I excel at satisfying those I'm with. I love easily and heal quickly from hurt. I experience jealousy at a lower intensity that most people seem to.
If I message you, it is not a secret attempt to lure you into a threesome. Good group sex takes a lot of effort and dishonesty pretty much ruins sex. I will inform you of my intentions when I message; be it lover, friend or foe.