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45 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 29
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I recently signed on to the OK Cupid again. I decided to take off the summer semester to work more and refill the coffers. I'm also allowing myself have fun again. I went back to school last year. When I grow up I'm going to be a nurse. I guess I'm really here to occasionally meet folks to do fun stuff. This is not a euphemism for a booty call. I mean like last minute plans for standing room at the opera or catching a show. But then again, who knows? Maybe my long-term sweetheart is on here and I just don't know about it yet.

I am a nice guy. Sometimes it drives me nuts to be called "sweet". It happens often enough that I'll just own it. I like having a purpose. I don't always know what my purpose is or maybe my purpose is to discover my purpose. Oh, and I'm a smart ass and always think I'm really funny. Try me out. I'll tell you a joke that will make me laugh.
I am a musician but not pro anymore. I'm moving on to other dreams.
What I’m doing with my life
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As I mentioned above, I'm in school to become a nurse. I hope to work with the chemically dependent and/or psych patients. Due to my background in the world of artists, spending time with crazy drug addicts is not much of a stretch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really silly at good humor (good at silly humor?). I like to think I can fix anything real or imagined.
I like to make things, repair things and discover things. I know that sounds vague. Most of the above things are musical instruments, furniture and old cars.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm tall. People like to inform me that I'm tall. Funny enough every time I look in a mirror that is aimed at my chest (ie all bathroom or bedroom mirrors) or when I try to buy pants, I also notice that I am very tall.
Perhaps not by coincidence, I am also often told how cool messy hair is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to pretend the dictionary is a divination tool. I don't often take that serious.
I loved "the saddest music in the world" it wasn't really sad.
My musical tastes are pretty diverse. But as far as I can tell there are 4 stations on the dial, the classical station, the college station and the jazz station and one that kinda sucks. Garage/surf is pretty well represented in my record collection. Siouxsie is like comfort food for me. My roots are definitely deep in punk and darker stuff. I worked in a classical record store for much of the 90s so the whole grunge thing passed me by. Oh and I've been on this Norwegian fiddle jag for a while now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor
A sense of humor
A sense of humor
A sense of humor
A sense of humor
Not necessarily in that order
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-The big questions. Why? How? What can I do to make it better?
-Why do I need so many pianos?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am not good at keeping secrets about myself (yours are safe). I don't really have items filed in my psyche in a "secret", "top secret", "for your eyes only" kind of way. Ask me something embarrassing, I'll let you be the judge.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you feel like it. Seriously, don't let someone tell you that you have to. Those people are not your friends!