I have always enjoyed being artistic, whether its drawing, sculpting, building something, or designing it. As much as I enjoy being creative, lots of times I seem to lose interest in my work before it is finished. This problem, however, is nearly non-existent if I am doing it with, or for, someone else. I always enjoy learning new things. Although, I don't find EVERYTHING interesting.
I can typically hold up a conversation. I can hold a conversation ten times better, if the person I am with has things they like to talk about. I am usually a very laid back person, but I can always bring lots of energy to anything that I enjoy doing. Unfortunately, I tend to be an over thinker and can psyche myself out in a lot of ways. I even get nervous about messaging with two different women (on OKC) at the same time. I have been trying to fix this problem ...but you know how difficult "the game" is.
Over the course of my life I have discovered some people originally didn't like the first impression they get of me, but over time they change their opinion. Also, some people take an instant like to me, but soon realize they were wrong ...Not THAT many people though. As much as I don't like to admit it, I have bad time management. I have been working on it, but it been a losing battle.
When it comes to dating women, one issue I have found is that I can easily fall for any women that has the right personality. THAT takes a long time to truly discover. So, usually I need to be attracted to the person, see earlier problem of psyching myself out.I know it can make me seem like a shallow person.
That being said, I never officially dated anyone growing up, I have gone on dates, and spent exclusive time with women. Most of the women that I have had relationships with have been people I have gone to school or worked with. So I usually need to spend a lot of time with someone before I really know who they are and if I want to be with them.