I have always enjoyed being artistic, whether its drawing, sculpting, building something, or designing it. As much as I enjoy being creative, lots of times I seem to lose interest in my work before it is finished. This problem, however, is nearly non-existent if I am doing it with, or for, someone else. I always enjoy learning new things. Although, I don't find EVERYTHING interesting.
I can typically hold up a conversation. I can hold a conversation ten times better, if the person I am with has things they like to talk about. I am usually a very laid back person, but I can always bring lots of energy to anything that I enjoy doing. Unfortunately, I tend to be an over thinker and can psyche myself out in a lot of ways. I have been trying to fix this problem ...but you know how difficult "the game" is. (you can ask if you don't know what I am talking about)
Over the course of my life I have discovered some people who originally didn't like the first impression they get of me, reversed it over time. Also, some who originally had instant good impression eventually changed their mind ...Not THAT many though. As much as I don't like to admit it, I have bad time management. I have been working on it, but it been a losing battle.
When it comes to dating women, one issue I have found is that I can easily fall for any women that has the right personality. THAT takes a long time to truly discover. So, usually I need to be attracted to the person, see earlier problem of psyching myself out.I know it can make me seem like a shallow person.
That being said, I never officially dated anyone growing up, I have gone on dates, and spent exclusive time with specific women. So please don't think it I am completely new at this. Currently I smoke weed fairly regularly. My habits can fluctuate however, and I can stop. If I have a reason too.