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38 Barcelona, Spain Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
When drinking
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I preach a love of the finer pleasures in life cause I feel that life's too short, so why not just enjoy it? That can be enjoying a good book or it can be sharing a bottle of wine with a friend, where a conversation becomes a shared moment of intimacy. For me, if I can manage to make a connection with another person, no matter how small or short, that’s what’s most important. The rest of the time, I'm just trying to avoid monotony, and only sometimes succeeding.

Sometimes I am fun and the life of the party, at other times, I can be introspective and shy. I'm always trying to grow to make myself better, while not trying to over think it. That will just suck the fun outta life, right?
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a traveller, a lover of worlds, languages, lifestyles, cultures. I love the contradictions our world presents as well. I live in Barcelona now and have lived here before. Hablo espanol, je parle francais, ein bisschen Deutsch, a touch of Thai and who knows what else? When I'm not decimating some poor unsuspecting language, I mold minds. And I'm good. I've got my handy rolling pin at my side. I'm busy, I work constantly, and I go out with friends as often as I can. Although it often feels like a whirlwind, I love it. I can say that, unusually for once, I'm happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This is probably for other people to judge better than myself. All I can say here is that I love playing guitar and singing. I'm no good really, but it soothes the soul.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well besides the lack of hair, a lot of people think I look pretty jewish :O
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love my books, music and food. For writing, I love the modernist era, the beginning of the 20th century. Aldous Huxley and W. Somerset Maugham's prose can't be beat. I have a taste for the fantastical, in Bulgakov's Master and Margarita as well as Clarke's Jonathan Strange & Mr. Norell, and I also have a small but seriously geeky love of sci-fi, like Asimov and Bester.

I watch more show than movies, and love the Wire, MadMen, Breaking Bad, and so many others. I love documentaries, the more strange the better, like the King of Kong!

For music, these days I let the internet choose for me, like 8 tracks or some other program. Occasionally, I dj and play stuff like MGMT - Gonjasufi, Mike Patton and Boards of Canada, as well as some of the 80's rock legends, like Hall n Oates.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar, books, friends, internet connection, sanity, cheese, laughs, toilet paper...I can't be limited to just six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, motivations, what makes people tick, how I can be a better person, how can I do well at my job. And a lot of the time, I just try to switch my mind off. never easy...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's different every weekend. Sometimes with friends having a drink, other times watching a movie or having a dinner party, or even drinks and dancing if anyone is daring enough to join me. Friday's have seen me kissing a stranger from time to time, or even sharing a bottle and some heated conversation about the discovery of the Higg's Boson.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm open to a fault so I'll tell you just about everything.
You should message me if
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you are self-assured, mature and feel like you want to get to know me a bit better. Oh, and also only if yer older than 30; no more youngins for me.