When did it become a crime to be a nice person? What is so unattractive about a person who gives a damn about other people? If you are looking for a guy who is a dickhead then go somewhere else. I'm incurably nice which tends to get me fucked over but screw it. I'd rather be nice with a clean conscious then be someone I'm not just to land a chick who is probably a bitch anyway.
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First off, you do not have to be some beauty queen to message me, I have been with gorgeous girls and I have learned that beauty is common, while a great personality is rare. So even if you don't think I'll reply to your messages or something, give it a shot and surprise me. A good personality always catches my attention over looks anyday.
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I have a rule... I don't plan on messaging back and forth for weeks. If you are actually interested in me, then you shouldn't be afraid to randomly talk to me at a public place. I don't mean to sound like a jerk, but if you are weirded out by meeting someone for coffee randomly, you probably aren't the girl for me anyway. Answering too many questions through messaging back and forth kinda kills the first in person conversation. So.... if you are up for actually meeting sometimes, go ahead in message me.... if not, don't waste both of our precious time.
And another side note, if your one of those girls that want a perfect guy (career, fit, funny, outgoing, etc....) you better be the same. The reason is mainly due to the fact that there are tons of beautiful girls, and when you're picky, you might end up alone. So just be yourself and don't always go into something with a damn list. Live life, and have fun with it.
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