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My self-summary
Hello there all,
I wanted to change this up a bit and add a few things in here that seem to need to be addressed. First, I am not into playing games like text tag and how-long-can-we-talk-without-meeting. If we are talking/texting/emailing and interested in each other then we should meet. It doesn't need to be the first day but it also shouldn't be something that we avoid like the plague. Second, if you aren't over your ex, your baby mama or still have your family do everything for you then we probably shouldn't meet. Third, if you don't like an honest, goofy, playful person then we probably won't get along.

I am originally from Vermont, but I have lived in North Carolina on and off for about 10 years. I love my free access for day and long weekend trips to the beach or mountains. I am blunt, brutally honest and straight-forward with just about everyone. I operate on a "my censor is mostly broken" policy, which means I will probably tell you things that you didn't want to hear but does NOT mean I will curse in front of your child or be disrespectful to your family. I was raised better than that. I am normally the only girl hanging out with a group of guy friends although I do have a few select female friends that I hang out with. I am just not really a fan of all the primping and drama and shopping... what can I say, once a tomboy, always a tomboy.
What I’m doing with my life
I am living my life. I do what I want to make me happy. This often involves loud music, art supplies, Pandora (my puppy, and sometimes the App) and a wild dose of creativity.
I’m really good at
Being random. Listening to music and singing along to every single word... mostly horribly off key.,. Hey, it is my car and Cpl. Edwards doesn't mind my singing! :) On a side not I am a pretty good person to go to if you want to know the words to a song as for some strange reason my brain seems to stock pile them. I am good at creating things from little to nothing. Random artwork that I find lacking but others love. Children love me for some reason as well... I guess it's because I can act like one and yet give them a bunch of secrets and facts that only grown ups know.
The first things people usually notice about me
I dunno... I wish someone would tell me...
If I am in my car, probably the random mix of music coming out and that I sing along to all of it. If I have any sort or craft or art supply nearby, then probably whatever I am making... otherwise you tell me.

I started asking people this, which mind you was a bit weird in itself but the top 4 answers are as follows:
1: smile - hmm I wonder what random thought caused this?
2: eyes/glasses - Why do these frames scream student/teacher/librarian? If like a porno?
3: my height - I guess being 5 ft 10 and wearing 3-4 inch heels does make me a bit too tall at times.
4: laughter - apparently I spend a lot of time laughing or making people laugh?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything Stephen King, Anne Rice, James Patterson, John Grisham or anything that I pick up and sounds interesting. I average a book a week and the topics are pretty far spread.

Movies: Pretty much anything with a good plot or a horribly bad one that will have me laughing through it. Movies with Johnny Depp, Hugh Jackman, Ryan Reynolds, Mark Wahlberg, Julia Roberts, Britney Murphy, Paul Walker, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, and Sandra Bullock get extra points though.

TV Shows: House, NCIS, Bones, White Collar, Burn Notice, Ghost Hunters, Restaurant Impossible, Covert Affairs, Sons of Anarchy, The Walking Dead, Once Upon A Time

Music: too much to name - there are over 400 songs on my phone

Food: Fruit, salad, ice cream (Ben & Jerry's), my dad's french toast with REAL maple syrup... NO FISH :(
The six things I could never do without
Essentials: air, food, water, shelter
Rain storms
Puppy kisses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You probably don't want to know... the randomness that fills my mind is hilarious and frightening at the same time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Are the Checkers playing? If so, I am at a game.
Is there a good band in town? If so, I am listening to them.
Is it a long weekend? If so, I am trying to find the best way to get to water for the weekend.
If none of the above apply, then you can help me make plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I will have to think of something really good..
You should message me if
You read down this far..
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