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52 F Somerville, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly other
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm smart, educated, emotionally upbeat, straightforward, unpretentious (is it pretentious to say that?), spiritually skeptical and politically progressive. I like good food, travel, animals, theater, movies, music, art, restaurants and outdoor activities like hiking, swimming, biking, and skiing. I'm a little unconventional, especially once you get to know me.

I can't quite picture what I'm looking for right now except you'd have to be OK that I'm seeing someone at the moment. I have plenty of room for someone else in my life. So do you, if you really think about it. I think if you really care for someone, you want them to be happy in all their pursuits, and you know--if you love someone set them free etc. If that quote doesn't ring a bell, you're waaaay too young for me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure it all out -- getting better at it every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading upside down
recognizing dog breeds
being a sous chef if you're cooking dinner
chopping vegetables (see above)
making people laugh, usually when I don't mean to
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The animal fur stuck to my clothes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm finding it hard to sit through an entire movie these days. When did I get so jaded?

I love most cuisines as long as the food is skillfully prepared.

I like live music, and have a bit of a violin fetish at the moment.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my independence
a morning cup of coffee
all that sensual stuff
an endless stream of new pursuits (we're talking hobbies here, not men)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much time I waste thinking about things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at a bar or restaurant, hiding under the covers, at work, home recovering from work, home with friends, cleaning my bathroom . .
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I liked the Harry Potter books
You'll have to get me tipsy and pry the rest out of me
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're between 40 and 60, a little quirky. (Truthfully, you could be 100 if you were physically active and had a contemporary outlook on life). You have some demons and are on a first-name basis with a few of them. You are kind to others and like to share (Sheesh! No, I don't mean your paycheck! I mean your popcorn at a movie) You believe in making up your own rules for relationships. If you send me a message that says "hi, your hawt", I won't respond. I have many qualities, but hawt isn't one of them. If you send me a coherent, thoughtful message I promise I'll respond within a week. This is a new leaf, but I realize cyber-rudeness is obnoxious.