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31 Utrecht, Netherlands Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Somewhat), Dutch (Fluently)
My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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Writing poetry, lyrics and (sometimes) stories.
Singing. Mostly good, sometimes crappy.
Thinking of too many ideas and not knowing where to begin.
Biking, swimming. Oh, and I need a vacation..

Other: cooking, socialising with housmates and friends, skypen with my sisters and my nephew and niece, visiting abandoned buildings and places with a friend (urbex).

Oh yeah, and looking for a job.... Got to eat :-)
I’m really good at
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The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Creative thoughts, music, notebook and pen, good tea, interhuman connections, nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You, offcourse. Well, that is, after you sent me a message.

At the moment, this fantastic album:

Also on my mind alot: random weird philosophical thoughts about lyrics of the song playing, something someone said 10 minutes earlier or something my weird brain suggested to itself.

Current day-/live-dreams: a little camper to travel around with, my poetry getting published, my website ideas realized, my music recorded (working on it!), my book written (long project, but working on it), ways to make some money (so I can do more of the things mentioned before).

But I also want to enjoy life and relax a bit now and again ;-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes wandering around making interhuman connections with creatures of my own spicies, sometimes diving in other things (like water or a beautiful mind, or a good movie).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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How about this:
You should message me if
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...... you are a bit (positively) crazy, got a twinkle in your eyes, a big smile, got curly hair, speak Flamish, or have spreckles. Or, ...

..... you have a sweet / crazy / naughty / friendly / original / poetic / interesting story to share.
.... you have a original title/subject for a poem I can write.
... you have something to ask or tell me, a good idea for something to do together.
.. you have a even better reason.
. you don't have any reason, but you still want to.