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Guildstarfire

29 M Spring, TX

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:38pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I took a five month hiatus from OKC only to return to see that this account was hacked. I have since recovered it. The perpetrator put me in Cincinnati, OH and was male seeking men who like men. To the men of OH I bid you adieu. I am neither seeking men, nor live in OH. Their loss, am I right?

A self- summary always seems like I’m drawing attention to myself. This is counterintuitive as I’m an introverted kind of guy (INTJ). I’ve been through a lot of shit and have in turn thought of myself as the eye of a hurricane anthropomorphized. I cuss liberally. I’ve always considered it a benchmark of a truly honest person. From the most pious nun to the bluest of collared worker, everyone enjoys the word “shit” appropriately placed.

I’m not exactly a small talk kind of person. It’s kind of the bane of my existence. Even with the starts of okcupid conversations, I’d rather just get down to business. With me it’s never about the weather. I always want to know more about a person. People fascinate me to a point where I look on humanity as a human zoo. When emotions cloud judgment, rationality easily flies out the window. I guess you could say it’s a good look at the animal instinct underlying. The biological imperative of self- preservation kicks in and conscious choices are only retroactively termed as such. In actuality they’re made from the unconscious mind as seen in the Libet experiment…

None of this is at all related to a self- summary! See what I mean. Fuck! That’s what it is to be with me. Get ready for conversations about meaningful shit. Or at least what I would consider meaningful. It’s most likely never going to be about sports. “Who’s winning the match”- Derek Zoolander is an apt quote. Growing up I wanted to be a cosmologist, anthropologist, psychologist, interior designer, graphic designer, illustrator, art historian to name just a few interests. I’ve always had an equal portion of left and right braininess. I prize creativity and logic amongst whatever else I am. I love thinking of incredibly romantic things and then planning how to see them through. The more required of me, the more I have to give. It’s just my nature.

I always go all in when I’m with someone. I never have one foot out the door keeping my options open. “That’s suicide by tiny, tiny increments.”- Rob Gordon High Fidelity. The grass is never greener. Most people don’t know what they want in life. They go from person to person trying to figure themselves out, while all along the way they’ve been a human wrecking ball. A trail of devastation left in their wake can be swept under the rug with the words “I’m only human, nobody’s perfect”. I only ask that people be accountable for themselves. I hold myself to a high standard. I would do no less for you, whoever you are. I’m a serial monogamist who will always try.

Art is a huge part of my life. I paint mostly acrylic these days, but am looking forward to branching out into a mixing of mediums. I love to sing. I sing at random when something pops in my head walking down the hall on my way in to work, in my department, for my patients, on my way out, at home, in the car, shower etc. I. Love. To. Sing. Please be ok with this. I’ll even sing a sentence I just said aloud just to make up a small song to the words. I’ve done karaoke far too few times for how much I enjoy it. Maybe we could do it sometime?
What I’m doing with my life
I currently have a goal of joining a rock climbing gym that opened up not too far from my house. I want to be in the best shape of my life when I turn 30 in December. I set a goal and see it through. I went to a rock gym years ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. I exercise and eat healthily daily. I started teaching myself how to cook not long ago, and haven’t made a bad dish… yet.

I am a nuclear medicine technologist at a hospital North of Houston. I work in the radiology department doing mostly call and subbing in for others. It suits me perfectly as I’m a night owl. I love being tender with everyone I come across. No one wakes up and decides it’s a good day to go to the hospital. I’ve always thought that while they’re in my department, they’ve got a friend. Despite being introverted, I really do enjoy meeting people and getting to know them.
I’m really good at
Listening. If there is a problem or you need to just unload, I’m your man.

Catching the smallest of details. I could watch a movie from the 90’s and take in not just the story, but notice the dust landing on the film during the editing process between two consecutive frames. It’s not anything I would call a hobby. This also applies to body language, vocal inflection, facial features… it gets a little intense for me to be around someone who is bullshitting me. This also means I myself do not bullshit.

Remaining calm. There have been sticky situations with patients and people outside of work alike in which you would think just the opposite occurs. It doesn’t. Rationality wins out in a split second. Fear and anger are destructive and volatile. This kind of transfers into how much I don’t get scared watching a horror film. A friend tried to scare me once. Instead of shrieking I just said “Oh you scared me!” She just laughed her ass off. Not exactly the response she was going for.*

I also play guitar. I play a made up kind of jazz that I’ve mostly composed when in bed falling to sleep. I can put more emotion into playing a soft acoustic over a plugged in amp. I almost rolled over on a guitar once. I woke up REALLY fast. I set it down now under the bed when I know I’m drifting off to sleep.

*Please do not take this as a challenge to scare me. Whether or not you succeed, know that I’ll never try to scare you. Just sayin. I also don’t prank. Ever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m a big tall guy. Not too big and not too tall. Just right? You tell me when we meet. My demeanor has an awkward charm that can and has offended by being direct.

I have a knowledge base that is broad enough to leave some people stumped and me sitting there in an awkward silence as I’m waiting for their response. If I’m talking about something you aren’t familiar with, we can always change the subject. No matter how obscure, there will always be a connection possible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Paradise Lost, the Divine Comedy, Tennyson Poetry, the Grand Design, A Brief History of Time, Essential Dali, Vintage Didion, really old Life magazines to name a few. I tend to favor scientific and historical texts over fiction. I do however enjoy me some Palahniuk and Vonnegut. I’m currently reading “Living With Intensity” by Daniels/ Piechowski. Psychology being one of my fascinations, the theory of Positive Disintegration by Dabrowski has been applied to the gifted and talented youth and adult by Piechowski. It’s an interesting read if you’re into understanding various forms of (transitive) psychology.

Movies: It's tough to pick favorites. 'to be alphabetically comprehensive:
12 Monkeys
40 Year Old Virgin, The
500 Days of Summer
2001: A Space Odyssey
A Beautiful Mind
Amelie
As Good as it Gets
Back to the Future
Big Fish
Bill and Ted's Bogus Journey
Big Lebowski, The
Breakfast Club, The
Catch Me if You Can
Danny Deckchair
Edward Scissorhands
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Everything is Illuminated
Family Man, The
Fanboys
Fifth Element, The
Fight Club
Forrest Gump
From the Hip
Garden State
Gattaca
Godfather, The
Good Will Hunting
Goonies, The
Groundhog Day
Hedwig and the Angry Inch
High Fidelity
Hot Tub Time Machine
Hudson Hawk
Idiocracy
Inherit the Wind
Interview With the Vampire
Kingdom of Heaven
L.A. Confidential
Last Hangman, The
Little Miss Sunshine
Master and Commander: The Far Side of the World
Matrix, The
Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil
Mr, Holland's Opus
Nightmare Before Christmas, The
No Country for Old Men
Office Space
Pan's Labrynth
Patch Adams
Pay it Forward
Phenomenon
Powder
Pulp Fiction
Punch-Drunk Love
Secretary
Seven
Shawshank Redemption, The
She's Out of My league
Shining, The
Star Trek (First Contact, 2009)
Sunshine
Synecdoche, New York
Thank You For Smoking
That Thing You Do
This Boys Life
Untamed Heart
V for Vendetta
Watchmen, The
Wayne's World
Wilder Napalm
Young Frankenstein
Zodiac

Anime: Berserk, Cowboy Bebop, Death Note, Evangelion, Planates, Trigun, Afro Samurai, Akira, Grave of the Fireflies, Tokyo Godfathers, Psycho- Pass

TV: 3rd Rock from the Sun, American Dad, Battlestar Galactica, Being Human, Boardwalk Empire, Bob's Burgers, The Borgias, Breaking Bad, Carnivale, Dead Like Me, Deadwood, Defying Gravity, Dexter, Freaks and Geeks, Futurama, Game of Thrones, Happy Endings, Invader Zim, Jericho, King of the Hill, Mad Men, MASH, Newsradio, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Rick and Morty, Rome, Rubicon, Shameless, Six Feet Under, Sherlock, The Simpsons (old episodes), South Park, Spaced, Star Trek (all of it), Stargate Universe, Suits, True Blood, The Twilight Zone, Undeclared, The Venture Bros, The Walking Dead, The Wire

Music: My taste is a bit eclectic. To pick from the myriad: Ella Fitzgerald, Bill Evans, Howard Alden, Art Tatum, Tupac, Belle and Sebastian, Chromeo, Hall and Oates, Jamiroquai, Beastie Boys, Woody Guthrie, Mahler, Led Zeppelin, Imogen Heap, Royksopp, Stevie Wonder, Death Cab for Cutie, Pantera, The Vines, Rufus Wainwright, John Mayer, Jurassic 5, Queen, Steve Vai, Edith Piaf, Daft Punk, Dvorak, Dan Croll. It's a broad spectrum.

Food: I eat food. I drink drinks. There's much that I haven't tried. I'm always curious. I love Mexican, Italian, and sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Rainy nights.
The way potatoes cleave to a sharp knife when cut on a bamboo cutting board.
Brewing tea.
Giving a good hug.
Petting my cat’s belly and her not ever getting annoyed. Her name is Curie by the way.
Driving fast, and always smart. Most people seem too much in a big damn hurry. All roads lead to Rome.

Six things I always do without:
-Facebook; Twitter, Pinterest, Instagram etc...
-Greed/Materialism.
-Religion; I need you to be able to think for yourself. Be rational. Have your faith. Be spiritual if you are. I simply ask that you also be rational.
-Bacon; it's America's killer.
-Credit cards; I'll never buy something I can't afford.
-Most Sports. All sports? It's predominantly more an issue with the nuances of professional sports than the sport itself. Competition is not exactly my cup of tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Existence: depth, breadth, scale from galactic filament to the subatomic, microbiology, a painting I want to create, the history of most anything I see or interact with, advertising in conjunction to the nature of politics, extrapolations on humanity’s future, human interaction in the scope of game theory, how to kiss better, what I can do to help others.

This list could get a little space cadet. If you want to know what I'm thinking about, just ask. Just know that it's always something and that you asked for it. I get the image of pandora's box or the ark of the covenant at the end of 'Raiders.
On a typical Friday night I am
On call for work. This limits what a Friday can turn into. To me there is no internal distinction between AM/PM, weekday/weekend, month/week/year; it’s all relative to the sun, moon, and earth. Humans have ascribed systems of measurement for the sake of communal society. The diurnality of the spotted lemur is just as spot on no matter a Tuesday or a Saturday.

In my time off from work I like to watch movies/tv, exercise, paint, pretty much anything that doesn’t require a roomful of people. Don’t get me wrong, I have no problem socializing. I see my friends. We do shit. I’m just not much of a drinker, so bars aren’t a thing for me, neither was da’club.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I always wink back when someone on a tv show/movie winks. 100% without fail.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You actually want someone to ask you about you and give a shit about your answer. I’m never trying to get into your pants. That’s not my end goal. You are. We are. Honest connection is what I’m all for. If that is something you’d be interested in, then hell yeah message me.