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46 M Williamstown, NJ

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White, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
This is weird, self summary? I hope I can keep this short but frankly my life has been quite a journey of varied experiences . So I would say, to describe the many chapters I'd have to write 9 of these essays. Well I've had what most people would call a hard life, but my experiences are part of what made me who I am, and I like me! Compassionate, caring, affectionate , warm and spiritually grounded person that I am. I must admit I have no regrets for any past suffering, for it has, in part, shaped me into the loving person that I am. However I should also add, I have a wicked sense of humor and I'm really good at speaking the truth even when no one wants to hear it. I can be quite cynical at times. I am immersed in my art for the most part, I have a gift for intuitive healing, massage and communicating. Many people I meet say they can "feel me". I'm definitely a "people person" and I have been an amazing parent. Raising two sons from birth to adulthood, largely on my own. It is probably my best skill and I'm very proud of that. I am an intellectual person and I can fix just about anything, I'm very good with my hands. I should also mention here I am a naturalist. I am not centered in material wealth. I love life and my quest for truth is ongoing. More to come ..
What I’m doing with my life
My ongoing search for truth in all things is very important to me, I don't think it is finite, there is always more to learn but I know this continuing growth in spiritual awareness is what will allow me to make a smooth and peaceful transition to the next level of life. I work in restaurant, I take it serious, I love the people. I am a musician, struggling like most are today. But it is a path with heart. I will very soon enjoy dual citizenship with the E U and may soon move to possibly the Netherlands if I don't find a reason to stay here. I am gradually downsizing to a simpler life and holding to the real wealth that is inside..
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, getting to the point, seeing through the bullshit, writing poetry and music, singing and playing guitar, growing things and working with nature, helping my soul mate feel good. I am great with children..
I am just a nice guy, some say I'm too nice. I'm Romantic and love good conversations. I will please you. All I ask is fairness..
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair is really long and the child in me is still alive..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Carlos Castaneda, The Last Unicorn, Radical Acceptance. Just to name a few.
Movies: Sergio Leone, The Outlaw Josey Wales, Rent, The Big Lebowski, Cool Hand Luke, Monty Python & the Holy Grail, High Plains Drifter,
Once Upon A Time In The West, Up In Smoke, The Blues Brothers, Jeremiah Johnson, Flashback, The Illustrated Man, The Pawnbroker, Honkytonk Man, Captains Courageous,
Escanaba in da Moonlight, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid,
Bobby, What Dreams May Come, Dances with Wolves,
The Last Waltz, Inception, World Trade Center, Avatar,
A Man Called Horse.
Shows: The Prisoner, Doctor Who,
Monty Python's Flying Circus, Seinfeld, & more.
I really do like all types of music, some more than others. Not much Metal or Hip Hop though.
Jefferson Airplane, Big Sugar, Ani DiFranco, Tommy Emmanuel,
Johnny Winter, Santana, Robbie Robertson, Al Di Meola, The Band, Bob Marley, Jethro Tull, Midnight Oil, Faces,
Aimee Mann, Hank Williams, Gram Parsons, Dire Straits, Dave Mason, George Harrison, Judy Collins, Kaki King, The Weepies, ANA Popovic, Jessica Lea Mayfield,
Blue Rodeo, Steel Pulse, Cowboy Junkies, Badfinger,
7 Worlds Collide, Jackson Browne, Billy Bragg, Neil Young,
Red Hot Chili Peppers, Richard Thompson, Willie Nelson
James McMurtry, Ana Vidovic, Jewel.
Food: Seafood , Sushi, Just about Anything freshly Grown, organic, Natural , local and just about every Cuisine as long as it's healthy. I'll try all sorts of new things..
The six things I could never do without
The connection with my soul, My ability to sense what others need, my history of parenting, My gift to dream lyrics, melodies and poetry, My guitars and my connection to the earth..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I do think a lot, I guess about a lot a stuff..
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing for an audience, home rehearsing or out to see a show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a fairly modest and selective guy sexually, I haven't had a great number of partners in my time and I'm proud of that. That said, this lover can charm the birds out of the trees when he wants too..
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Your not just looking for someone to make your life easy with material things. Your looking for real joy in a relationship. You accept that real wealth is in your heart. You want a wonderful lover capable of real tenderness. Your looking for friendship with someone really fun who is down to earth..
Users and Wak a Doo's who want to pretend to be down to earth to get a free lunch can move on thank you. I'm sure there are plenty of knuckleheads on this site that will accommodate you.
I am having way too much fun with my life right now, Things are really bangin for me, I don't need you or anyone else for that matter. So be ready for "Real" or go play elsewhere..