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Gus4001

32 / M / straight / Single

South Bend, Indiana

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
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Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
—
Languages
English

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I am loving, friendly, and smiling.

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My Self-Summary

I was born. I grew up. I got married. I got divorced. I decided along the way that I like who I am. I am looking to fall in love. I love talking and just laying together in eachothers arms. I want to make a family and spend everynight with my best friend. I have been unlucky in love but I have faith that someone can find me. If you are looking for a nice guy to show you how special you are I am your guy! I want to get wrapped up in love with someone and have the whole world be jealous of what we have. I like to drop in on my girls day and suprise her with her favorite candy or something just to see her smile. I love to put a smile on my lady's face and see that smile anytime I walk into the room. I like to smile and know that being in love is the best way to have a perminant smile on your face.

What I’m doing with my life

Working, trying to make things work.

I’m really good at

I like to play cards, bowl and listening. I am good at being a giver I love to know that there is nothing my girl could ever want that i could give her. I am a fairly decent cook I love to exparement with new spices and try to make new tastes. I am good at playing with children I love to spend the day playing hard with my niece until she is ready for bed.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am a big guy. People usually notice that I may not be the first guy you would want to come up to and start talking to. If I am with friends and family people have noticed me for my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

John Sanford and James Patterson are my favorite authors. I'd be hard pressed to pick a favorite book.

I have a favorite genre, does that count? I love horror...but action-adventure is great, I'll even admit to being a lover of Disney movies and I've even seen all the Harry Potter Movies (to date, waiting for the next!)

Everything from Johnny Cash to Metallica to the OCCASIONAL Garth. Just no rap.

Hacienda, anyone? I like hot stuff...tabasco is a staple in my kitchen, and I pretty much put black pepper on everything. Not really open to trying LOTS of new foods, but the basic stuff is good with me.

The six things I could never do without

My family
Sunglasses
Bowling and/or golf
Some form of employment (pays the bills and keeps me busy)
Daily showers
A dark place to sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Finding my new best friend and falling in love. I like to sit and dream about making a family of my own. I spend time wishing I could find that special lady I can make fall in love with me. I love to dream about falling in love and seeing the face of my dream girl when i walk into the room. I like to think of a home built on love and held together with a bond that will out last anything put in fornt of it.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, possibly bowling, possibly at home playing with my beautiful niece :) I would love to spend the nights in the arms of my best friend watching a movie at home. I am also a big fan of a date night. Even when I am in a relationship I love to take my sweetie out for dinner and a movie maybe a walk in the night air. Holding hands, sneaking kisses, having my girl on my arm means everything to me I want her to know she is my number one and friday is just as good as any night to show her what she means to me.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have been in love before and I long to feel it again. I can be a bit of an intimmidating person if you just look at me without spending the time to get to know me. I am a big softy that would not hurt anyone on purpose. I am not the typical guy that wont care about your feelings and I am not afraid to share mine. In the time that I have been on my own I have done a lot of looking at my life and admitting that I know what I want and realizing just what that is.

You should message me if

Looking for someone to fall in love with. I want the family everyone dreams about. I would want nothing more then to fnd my new best friend and treat her like a queen just like she deserves.

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