It also appears that life is pushing me to re-stabilize and reorient before dating again. Please excuse while I introspect and adjust.
What this unfortunately means for me is that if you don't have a decent, known, and desired local meeting place already in mind, I'm not ready to pick a place to meet and ask you to go there.
If you DO have a set meeting place and can tell me a day and time to be there, I will show up, be my charming self, and you will love me forever and become yet another one of my obsessive stalkers. (J/K)
Check back often.
I'm not a world traveller. I'm not going to go far from where I'm comfortable, I'm a cat person and I do not like dogs.
I'm busting my ass going to therapy, taking appropriate medication, doing my best to get along at work and want to settle down with someone, buy a new house on the water, set up a nice saltwater reef tank, be financially stable, have a couple of fun cars, and tinker with woodworking, car, and other projects as I like to play with electronics, mechanical things, and it keeps me happy and occupied.
I am active, task and project based, technically inclined, and like to keep busy with projects and hobbies. I particularly enjoy building things and am a VW and Audi enthusiast.
In order to remember things, I write lists, sub-lists, and addendums to sub-lists.
When resting I prefer to kick back with a movie at home with my awesome home theater system.
I feel that I'm a decent looking guy in reasonable shape, certainly no athlete but am looking for the same. I do tend to like short girls and dark hair, skin color is inconsequential as I like many shades. If I find you cute or pretty, it doesn't matter what color you are.
I'm at a point in my life where I'm looking to "settle down" with the right person, find a nice home by a river, lake, or pond, tinker with my project cars, do a little woodworking, maybe build a teardrop camper and travel a little but not far.
I'm not much of a morning person. I'm usually up "early" because I have to be to work by 8:30 AM and it takes me a couple of hours to become cognizant. Please don't be offended if I don't reply first thing in the AM, I'm usually sitting with my coffee clicking on the pictures.
I like to watch the fireflies come out at dusk.