Since it seems to be a deal breaker for some let me be up front. Yes I am married - I am a polyamorous man married to a polyamorous woman (Muridae). My wife and I are each open to multiple partners. We date separately for the most part- we are not unicorn hunters or trying to set up some casual threesome.
I am on OKC looking for real relationships with other non-monogamous people, not flings, and activity partners.
(the name, The Bursar, comes from long time fandom of Terry Pratchett and used it online with friends taking other Unseen University faculty names)
(I am not A-list, so I will not see who sent it if you 'like' me. Better to send me a quick message)
I can be a bit shy but only somewhat introverted. Once I get to
know someone it can be hard to get me to shut up :).
I am an internet and information junky - always browsing for news, current events, and sales/travel deals. I probably either know or am playing the latest computer games. I also love to watch movies and make frequent use of our home theater.
When not absorbed by a screen I love to discuss philosophy, finance, politics, religion, and current events - almost anything where a viewpoint can be teased out and dissected. I love to strike up a conversation on nearly anything with multifaceted viewpoints. I am a very direct / too-honest-for-own-good type person.
I'd like to think that I am playful, inquisitive, and open.
Stuff For Fun
Hanging out with a small, close circle of friends. I like
hosting small group gatherings of friends to play board and card
games or watching something from our movie collection and making
meals for the group.
I am not really a bar or club person, but do enjoy a social drink out with friends on some occasions.
I try to not let work keep me from doing anything fun so try to
keep my eye open for opportunities to go to a concert, convention,
or just walk my neighborhood looking for what is new. I've visited
a few countries and while on a lull at the moment have tried to
plan a trip at least a couple times a year, even if it is just
Vegas. My retirement plan is to see the world a few times
Not done recently but also fun (in no partiuclar order): camping, canoeing, bowling, aikido (need to find a dojo near here though), and beach fun . I try to stay at least somewhat physically active though might not be hitting the condo gym as often as I should. I am willing to try most anything that won't get me killed or imprisoned at least once.
I like getting out and about but prefer to do so with friends, otherwise I'll be at home reading on my kindle, using my home theater, or putzing around on the computer. I like to cook and am ok at it, above single guy ramen special at least. I am equally happy to go out to eat and an evening on the town though. I really like trying new places