I have sort of settled into a mid life routine at this point, with work transitioning into quiet evening with my wife playing computer games and watching movies, and hanging out with a few friends on weekends.
Background and Romance
I moved to LA about 10 years ago to work and finally think of it
as home. I married my wonderful wife (Muridae) recently. We want to lengthen our
list of friends and activity partners. Muridae is also interested
in women and sold me on the idea of at least considering the idea
of a triad relationship, which is why we haven't deleted these
We are a couple of geeks and though a bit shy not particularly
introverted (at least me). We are internet and information junkies and
probably know or are playing the latest video games. We also share
a love of movies and make frequent use of our home theater. There
are some differences - I love to discuss politics, religion, and
current events, whereas Muridae won't even watch Daily Show with me. I am a very
direct / too-honest-for-own-good type person, Muri is more
I am playful, inquisitive, and open. I love to strike up a conversation on nearly anything with multifaceted viewpoints.
Stuff For Fun
Hanging out with a small, close circle of friends. I like
(hosting gatherings), we have a decent boardgame and movie
collection plus like to make meals for groups. Funny and/or action
and/or make-you-think films. Discussing/debating/talking about
nearly anything. Computer/video/card/board games.
I try to not let work keep me from doing anything fun so try to
keep my eye open for opportunities to go to a concert, hit the
beach (its so close!), convention, or just walk my neighborhood
looking for what is new. I've visited a few countries and try to
plan a trip at least a couple times a year, even if it is just
Vegas. My retirement plan is to see the world a few times
Not done recently but also fun (in no partiuclar order): camping, canoeing, bowling, aikido (need to find a dojo near here though), beach fun (frisbee, volleyball), and many other things. To be honest I am not as physically active as I should or want to be at the moment, hopefully remedy that soon. I am willing to try most anything (that won't get me killed or imprisoned) at least once, contrasting Muri's food pickiness.
I like getting out and about but prefer to do so with friends, otherwise typically I'll be at home reading on my kindle, using my home theater, or putzing around on the computer or game console. I like to cook and am pretty decent at it, above single guy ramen special at least and Muri is pretty picky. I am equally happy to go out to eat and an evening on the town though. I really like trying new places