I have sort of settled into a mid life routine at this point, with work transitioning into quiet evening with my fiance playing computer games and watching movies, and hanging out with a few friends on weekends.
Background and Romance
I moved to LA about 10 years ago to work and finally think of it
as home. I have been engaged to my wonderful fiance (Muridae) for about a year. We
want to lengthen our list of friends and activity partners. Muridae
is also interested in girls if you are looking for a couple to hang
with or a triad relationship, which is why we haven't deleted these
We are a couple of geeks but less so than we used to be and are
still quite social. We are internet and information junkies and
probably know or are playing the latest video games. There are some
differences - I love to discuss politics, religion, and current
events, whereas Muridae won't even watch Daily Show with me. I am a very
direct / too-honest-for-own-good type person, Muri is more
I am playful, inquisitive, and open
Stuff For Fun
Hanging out with a small, close circle of friends. I like
(hosting gatherings), so have a decent boardgame and movie
collection plus like to make meals for groups. Funny and/or action
and/or make-you-think films. Discussing/debating/talking about
nearly anything. Computer/video/card/board games.
I try to not let work keep me from doing anything fun so try to
keep my eye open for opportunities to go to a concert, learn to ski
(again, basically every other year I start over), hit the beach
(its so close!), convention, or just walk my neighborhood looking
for what is new. I've visited a few countries and try to plan a
trip at least a couple times a year, even if its just Vegas. My
retirement plan is to see the world a few times over.
Not done recently but also fun (in no partiuclar order): camping, canoeing, bowling, aikido (need to find a dojo near here though), beach fun (frisbee, volleyball), and many other things. I am willing to try most anything (that won't get me killed or imprisoned) at least once.
I like getting out and about but prefer to do so with friends, otherwise typically I'll be at home reading, using my home theater, or putzing around on the computer or game console. I like to cook and am pretty decent at it, above single guy ramen special at least, but my fiance is pretty picky. I am equally happy to go out to eat and an evening on the town though.