I've lived aboard a sailboat since the mid-80s on Chesapeake Bay, San Francisco Bay, across to Hawaii, and now back on the Chesapeake.
Have two MS degrees, inquisitive mind, am well-read, enjoy political questioning, bathe daily, am sexually inquisitive, have two ex-wives and dozens of lovers.
Most (er all) of the OkCupid matches are women who are either
1) co-dependent upon grandkids, gold fish, dogs, horses, or shopping
2) seeking someone to replace their ex-husband.
Yep, I'm cynical when it applies and skeptical when it's necessary.
Me, I have moved aboard my next offshore vessel. Perhaps as late as 2014 I will sail away on my next bluewater voyage. Would love to find a woman who can live simply, share responsibility, and be an adventurer.