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55 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a gypsy soul. A spirit that is not confined to one idea. I thrive in a life that's out of the ordinary.

Coquettish yet soulful, soft with an edge. Third generation New Yorker, raised on Venice Beach. I've been back in NY 21 years. More than a bit of East Coast/West Coast in me.

Big Heart: I am a mentor for a great program. My friends are in the arts so you can catch me at their fundraisers, or as you can see from the photo, becoming art.

Very responsible job, creative lifestyle: The combination works. Creatively, I have performed for over a decade with an infectiously fun Naw'leans style brass band as a dancer. Work wise I am a paralegal.

Adventurous streak: I've been in 21 countries, snorkeled the barrier reef, climbed the Mayan ruins and I've been to Burning Man 3x. I love the freedom of traveling, I pack light.

What do I want? Someone I can care about who cares about me. A man who enjoys small intimacies: playful bantering, silly text msgs, rubbing the back of your neck. It's that simple and that complex.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As Joe Strummer said, "the future is unwritten."

That being said it is time for spring cleaning. For me it involves keeping what enhances my life and letting go of the rest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being provocative, enthusiastic and keeping my promises. I'm the someone you can count on.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. I have very light green eyes. People ask me if they're real - they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite is to share food.

Huge fan of live performance. Everything from music, dance, aerial, street theater, off Broadway and Broadway.

Chaplin's "The Kid", "Theory of Everything" and "Beast of the Southern Wild" stand out in movies. I go from Indie to mainstream depending on my mood.

Music: Rock, Punk, blues and a lot of in between: I can go from the Clash to the Stones, Doors, Ramones, Pogues, Kinks, Tom Petty, Stones, Etta, Tom Waits, Patti Smith, Iggy, Social D, Who, Neil Young, Billie, Lucinda, Cash, Broadway show tunes to JayZ in a heartbeat.

I have quite a collection of books on my Kindle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My father's memory
Egyptian Musk (my scent)
My imagination
Comfy bed with lots of pillows
Art, Music, Life
Not following the rule of six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and anything. Evolving. Ask me tomorrow and I am sure it will have changed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My life is Atypical, so are my Friday nights. Spontaneity plays a big part in it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have said enough already
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You have an offbeat streak in your soul
- You are a flawed, independent thinker
- You have more reasons to meet than excuses not to
- You want to create NEW memories rather than living in the old