Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a gypsy soul. A spirit that is not confined to one idea. I
thrive in a life that's out of the ordinary.
Third generation New Yorker, raised in California, lived on Venice
Beach. Miss the smell of the ocean and riding my bike on foggy
mornings. I've been back in NY 21 years where I flourish in the
energy of the City . More than a bit of East Coast/West Coast in
Big Heart: I support my friends in music or the arts by going to
their performances, openings, collecting donations or becoming art
(see photo). I started a creative writing program for seniors in
the LGBT community. I am very active in grass roots organizations
that go unnoticed, but do such great work.
Adventurous streak: I've been in 21 countries, snorkeled the
barrier reef, stupidly climbed the Mayan ruins and I've been to
Burning Man 3x. I love the freedom of traveling, I pack
What do I want? Someone I can care about who cares about me. A man
who craves substance, intimacy and playful banter.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As Joe Strummer said, "the future is unwritten."
Summertime and the living was easy. Coney Island, outdoor
cafes/concerts and performing are a few things I indulged in.
Weekend getaways and a trip to France rounded it out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being provocative, enthusiastic and keeping my promises. I'm the
someone you can count on.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes. I have very light green eyes. People ask me if they're
real - they are.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite is to share food.
Huge, Huge fan of live performance. Everything from music, dance,
aerial, street theater, off Broadway and Broadway. Theater is one
of the best reasons to live in New York
Chaplin's "The Kid", "Theory of Everything" "Beast of the Southern
Wild" and anything by Tim Burton stands out in movies. From Indie
to blockbusters depending on my mood.
Music: Rock, Punk, blues and a lot of in between: I can go from the
Clash to the Stones, Doors, Ramones, Pogues, Kinks, Tom Petty,
Stones, Etta, Tom Waits, Lyle, Patti Smith, Iggy, Social D, Who,
Neil Young, Billie, Lucinda, Cash, anything written by T-Bone
Burnett, show tunes to JayZ in a heartbeat.
I have quite a collection of books on my Kindle.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My father's memory
Egyptian Musk (my scent)
Comfy bed with lots of pillows
Friends on both Coasts
Not following the rule of six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything and anything. It keeps evolving. Ask me in an hour, it
will have changed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My life is Atypical, so are my Friday nights. Spontaneity plays a
big part in it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You have an offbeat streak in your soul
- You are a flawed, independent thinker with a sense of humor
- You're ready to create NEW memories rather than living in the old
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