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43 M Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love the California weather, but I'm an East Coast guy at heart: I like guys who are responsible and on-time, fires in the fireplace, game nights and thunderstorms.

I believe that monogamy is the basis of a successful relationship.

I swam NCAA in college, studied abroad and spent 8 years in a Monastery. I like athletic guys with open minds and strong values.

Things I look for : Fun(ny), masculine, responsible, athletic, interesting, fit, normal, well-adjusted, non smoking ... OK, handsome and settled would be great too.
What I’m doing with my life
At 30, I left a Buddhist Monastery which was important for my development as a person. At 40, I left corporate America and started my own business.

I keep myself busy. And like it that way. If you have a sweet tooth, you've probably hit the jackpot.

Taking time to explore the city, and the local beaches, restaurants (mom and pop), scenic roads.
I’m really good at
Finding something fun to do.

Scooter ride?

yeah, yeah, yeah, you can say you're too cool for that, I've heard it before, but I've also heard those same guys a week later say Scooter Ride? with a shy goofy grin because they know how much fun it really is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Always looking for a new fantasy series after so many years of philosophy, I like a fun read. Hunger Games. David Eddings, Charlaine Harris, their styles hold my attention again and again.

Calvin and Hobbes. Mr. Watterson got it.

Movies - Amelie, Princess Bride, UP, anything by Pixar. I prefer being entertained to being shocked or grossed out.

TV - Glee, Dead Like Me, Six Feet Under, Pushing Daisies, SYTYCD, True Blood, Castle, Bones, The Closer. And Wipeout when I need a laugh for 2 minutes.

Music - I would go to hear Annie Lennox sing the phonebook. Love Adele, Eva Cassidy. New fascination with Celeste Buckingham. I tend to go for voices with some thought in their lyric over a dance beat - that being said I can fall for catchy bubblegum and be completely unapologetic.

I don't own a single Madonna album and I'm really fine with it. Old-school big band playing in another room? awesome.

Food - I'm a recovering vegetarian - so it should have moo'd recently. and dessert, don't forget dessert, probably chocolate something or other.
The six things I could never do without
My friends to keep me sane
A sense of humor
People who know how to drive - and less of the people who don't
An amazing burger
ok, that was eight. But the burger was important.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I could use less time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working with friends. then going out to dinner to catch up and share the wierdness.

Trips to half price books for bargain comics works great too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think events like Folsom set us back 10 years in mainstream society. We need better examples of what gay culture offers the world.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're fun, masculine, professional, responsible, normal and have learned to define yourself as a person rather than a lifestyle.