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H20Fire

44 M Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:06pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, Swedish (Okay)

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My self-summary
All-American Boy with a Twist: I swam NCAA in college, studied abroad and then spent 8 years in a Buddhist Monastery.

I like clean-cut, professional, athletic men with open minds and strong values.

I love the California weather, but I'm an East Coast guy at heart: I like guys who are responsible and on-time, fires in the fireplace, game nights and thunderstorms.

I believe a sense of humor is essential to life, and that monogamy is the basis of a successful relationship.

Things I look for : Fun(ny), masculine, responsible, athletic, interesting, fit, normal, well-adjusted, non smoking ... OK, handsome and settled would be great too.
What I’m doing with my life
At 30, I left a Buddhist Monastery, where I studied directly after college. At 40, I left corporate America and started my own business.

I keep myself busy. And like it that way. If you have a sweet tooth, you've probably hit the jackpot.

Taking time to explore the city, and the local beaches, restaurants (mom and pop), scenic roads.
I’m really good at
Finding something fun to do.

Scooter ride?

yeah, yeah, yeah, you can say you're too cool for that, I've heard it before, but I've also heard those same guys a week later say Scooter Ride? with a shy goofy grin because they know how much fun it really is.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hair color. Blue eyes. Yes. I'm Irish.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - Always looking for a new fantasy series after so many years of philosophy, I like a fun read. Hunger Games. David Eddings, Charlaine Harris, their styles hold my attention again and again.

Calvin and Hobbes... Mr. Watterson totally got what it was like to be 5.

Movies - Amelie, Princess Bride, UP, anything by Pixar. I prefer being entertained to being shocked or grossed out.

TV - Glee (earlier episodes. I'm getting tired of Lea), Dead Like Me, Six Feet Under, Pushing Daisies, SYTYCD, True Blood, Castle, Bones, The Closer. And Wipeout when I need a laugh for 2 minutes. That said, I'm usually not home to watch TV.

Music - I would go to hear Annie Lennox sing the phonebook. Love Adele, Eva Cassidy. I tend to go for voices with some thought in their lyric over a dance beat - that being said I can fall for catchy bubblegum and be completely unapologetic.

I don't own a single Madonna album and I'm really fine with it. Old-school big band playing in another room? awesome.

Food - I'm a recovering vegetarian - so it should have moo'd recently. and dessert, don't forget dessert, probably chocolate something or other.
The six things I could never do without
Water
My friends to keep me sane
A sense of humor
Manners
People who know how to drive - and less of the people who don't
Honesty
An amazing burger
ok, that was eight. But the burger was important.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I have time to jump in the pool before the next thing on my schedule.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working with friends. then out to dinner to catch up and share the wierdness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think events like Folsom set us back 10 years in mainstream society. We need better examples of what gay culture offers the world.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 33–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're fun, masculine, professional, responsible, normal and have learned to define yourself as a person rather than a lifestyle.