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44 Ashland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 33–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:26am
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Has dogs

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Who am I? What a difficult task to do but it seems that the only way to weed out those who you are not interested in on these sites is by their written profile. I am first and foremost a father to my two children whom I have been raising for the last eight years by myself. They are 13 and 16 and are centered, strong, and grounded, which is why I am now hoping to reach out for relationships for myself. I am not looking for someone to be involved in raising my kids in any way. I have lived a life with lots of experiences, much of it through travel and personal hurdles. I have gratefully started down a new path in life after spending most of my life as a carpenter. During the last four years I have been working on my education and it’s my intent to continue until I have a master degree in social work and/or mental health. I work in social services with addicts; compassion and helping those suffering is part of the core of who I am. I feel as though I wasted a large portion of my life not following my heart and feel that I have found a career that gives my life meaning and purpose. I believe people are inherently good and want to live fulfilling lives. I am committed to a life of personal growth and hope to continue to evolve until my last days. Communication is critical to me and needs to be a core value of any relationship I enter. I am not “new age” and don’t believe in chem-trails or most conspiracy theories. I have a strong moral and spiritual base but could never be with someone who subscribes to a doctrine of any of the major religions. I would most fit into an agnostic (and leaning towards atheist) mindset. I am not looking for a “hook up” or into casual sex but do hope to be with someone who is not sexually repressed and has a strong desire for fulfilling intimacy. I am looking for friendship as well as a relationship with people sharing similar values and I am not expecting to make these connections with everyone I meet through this process of “online dating”. If you think we have similar values and think we may have potential for friendship or more please message me and I will happily reply and share more of myself than is stated here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
compassion, respect, being genuine, being a father
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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No TV at this house but NPR, and The Daily Show are regulars here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids, my integrity, my family, friends, good food, and compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where/what I will be doing in ten years and who I want to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hoping for genuine and sincere conversation, having a good meal with my kids
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
just about anything, in person
You should message me if
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You are genuine and know who you are and what you want. You are an active participant in life and able to communicate openly and respectfully.

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