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37 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:56am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a pretty laid back guy that loves being outside and enjoy the sun when we have it. I love everything that nature has to provide for fun. Being camping, hiking, skiing, riding my motorcycle, burningman, laying in the grass reading a book or napping. I am a social person and enjoy a balance between people and down time.

I am kinky and a simultaneous switch. I am a believer and practice non-monogamy. I think that open communication is hot and welcome it. I am having a good time and love the life that I'm creating.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just finished my masters in business. Recently moved to the bay area from Seattle and loving it. I'm up for adventure and expiration right now while coming up with fun projects to maintain my artistic release.

I'm continuing to study different thoughts on meditation and relating to people. I guess the title for this chapter in my life would be titled, "Openness, Patience, compassion, and Loving" Sounds kinda woo woo hippy. Well it is.

I like my life and the dance that I keep doing with the universe in seeing where I go.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating music and dancing like nobody is watching. Listening and Reflecting. Grounding. I'm a giving person that gives with no expectation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile and how I can brighten a room with it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: His Dark Materials, The Tao of Pooh, Phantom, The Alchemist, books by Osho, Dark Force Rising series, Most works of Hunter Thompson, Dharma Bums, Tom Stoppard plays

Movies: 5th Element, Kung Fu Panda, Star Wars, Star Trek, Let the Right One In, Van Wilder, Zoolander, Roll Bounce, Can't Hardly Wait, Most Choen Brother's movies. American hustle.

TV: Buffy, Heroes, Freaks and Geeks, Carnival, Spaced, Dead Like Me, BSG, Doctor Who, Samurai Jack, The Soup, West Wing

Music: The Avett Brothers, String Cheese Incident, Plaid, Flaming Lips, Kool Keith, Phish, Reggie Watts, Grateful Dead, Fever Ray, LCD Soundsystem, oh man there's a ton of music that I love.

Food: I have a love for all types of food. I make some awesome mexican fusion food and Indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggling, community, expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve myself and my meditation practice.

Relationships, my connection to them, and how to deepen my sexual connection.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be a variety of things. I could be going out for an after work happy hour and staying out till 4am. I could just go home and cook a fantastic meal and watch a movie. having friends over for board games and socializing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like making tutu's and running around places in them. So much fun.
You should message me if
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You like to talk about various ideas and practices of non-monogamy. I enjoy talking about what I am doing with my life right now and how it has helped me grow and further my love and understanding.

You wish to share with me your thoughts and ideas of life.

If you are looking for someone to share an adventure with.

Or hear a bad joke.