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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 21
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Dropped out of University
Has kid(s) and might want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I grew up in Arizona, have lived in New Orleans, Key West, Montauk NY, and now Maui. You can find me building the interwebs, or computer networks on week days, or camping, hiking, and diving on the weekend. I'm pretty much a bizarre mix of worldly / geek / spiritual seeker / adventurer / goofball.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking chances, and trying new things, while trying not to F&$k it up too badly. I'm trying to figure out how to best use the talents I've been given to affect and help people every day. I guess I see my self as "in service" to human kind.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making friends, Problem Solving, adventuring
The first things people usually notice about me
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You might notice that I laugh a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bible, J.R.R. Tolkien, Malcolm Gladwell, Tim Ferris, Rumi, The Alchemist (Paolo Cuelo), Biography of Ben Franklin, Fredric Lehrman, Robert Kiyosaki, books that teach something...

Movies: Glory, Life of Pi, Gandhi, French films, Shawshank Redemption, Amalie, Adam Sandler, Will Farrell, Old Westerns, LOTR, Sci Fi.

Music: EDM, Folk music of most flavors, Afro Cuban Jazz, Reggae, Latin, and Britney Spears (no not really...)

Food: Spicy! Exploratory, Indian, Thai, Mexican, Korean... I like almost everything and love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
love, friends, wisdom, learning, 1/2 n 1/2 for coffee, and deep conversations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Understanding what's going on in the world. Players, politics, spirituality, factions, timing, and events. These all connect and make a larger picture.

Love - how it works, what it means, and how I can embody it more day to day. We spend years learning to make dollars...why not learn to love people? It's simple to understand and complex to master.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I never know week to week. There is no typical Friday or any other night. Each day is unique to itself. I try to be aware of that...and maybe push it a little.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I explosively pooped my pants once in a racquet ball court, right after breakfast at Zeke's Eatin' Place. Never ate there again. I can only imagine what my opponent told his wife about the game...

oh...and I like Spam, but never before racquet ball
You should message me if
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you want to meet a unique character, go on an adventure, laugh, or talk about something that matters.