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33 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Very dualistic, generally either underwhelmed or all in. Hopeful but realistic. Very manly but a romantic at heart. Drawn to creative types. Excited by the adventurous type. you HAVE to be funny, or at least have a great sense of humor with a little sarcasm thrown in there. An insatiable hunger for knowledge, so the nerdy type also grabs my attention. an easy conversation starter would be giving me a good book recommendation.

Go ahead and explore, Instagram: HLPND
What I’m doing with my life
boring office job 9-5, and a photographer by night/weekend. It's what keeps me happy. Check out some of my work if you're curious. I really need to update the photos there, but it can give you a taste. and it's 100% work safe.
I’m really good at
Listening, walking 5 flights up with ALL the grocery bags so that I don't have to make two trips. cooking, scheduling my dvr (conflict free), watching full seasons of shows I haven't seen before in one weekend, refilling brita pitchers, fixing just about anything, being sarcastic, procrastinating... I'm really good at a LOT of things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Fountainhead, 1984, The Time Traveller's Wife, The alchemist, The Stand, The Talisman, Pillars of the Earth, Love Story, Kite Runner, I never promised you a Rose Garden, almost anything from Anne Rice, so many more

Movies: Shawshank redemption, wedding crashers, Old school, the Neverending Story, Lost boys, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, garden state, 500 days of summer, 21 jump street, training day, Big Fish, Pan's Labyrinth.
The six things I could never do without
My Nikon
Zyrtec (fucking allergies)
My family
My iPad
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to work Jim's pranks into my own office life
On a typical Friday night I am
Idk.. happy hour maybe
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A lot of people answer "the fact that I'm on OkCupid" for this question. But I'm completely ok with being on this site. It's 2013, this is what we do now. The most private thing that I'm willing to admit here is that I could watch the goriest of horror films but show me a needle and I turn into the biggest wuss.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're serious about finding someone. I'm not really into dating and just "messing around", I'm looking for someone to share my future with as corny as that sounds.

If you're artistic in any way.

if you DON'T smoke cigarettes. (Deal breaker) i cant stand the way the smell gets infused into your hair, the taste of it on your lips,.. Ugh

I would rather it if you didnt have kids.. I know thats tough these days but I have 4 Godchildren and a niece that have my heart. I always wanted a big family of my own and will get attached to your kids, so if things didnt work out between us, it would be tough.