Hello. I am an affectionate, humorous, adventurous, non conformist professional. And I am seeking a professional, classy, well dressed/kept female for deepest connections on various levels of intimacy with physical touch/affection and quality time, which are my 2 main love languages. I am from Ohio originally and back here unfortunately but wish I could get back to Phoenix AZ where I was a few years back and loved everything about it!
I hate that I have to say this but apparently I do now. Please no weathered abused or abusive women who hasn't unpacked your baggage. I am seeking a woman who is between 24-40 and you must be very well kept with classiness and be extra hygienic and in reasonable shape and solid if thick. I don't like toothpicks bc they don't have enough meat on their bones and others have too much. I just cannot achieve satisfaction when someone has a barrier to potent to overcome, whether physically or psychologically and emotionally or spiritually. You must not be anti love in any way like a bitter scorned woman from past hurts.
And I really need a woman to dress in the style of or similar to PINK / Victoria Secret attire, Hollister, Express, or whatever is girly and sexy, classy and clean and stylish. How can any woman not want to be the most feminine she can be and the most hot and attractive and feel sexy as hell!?? Please no more tom boys or trashy over sized baggy clothes wearing insecure women who do not wear make up or do their nails or hair or who wear mens clothing and are too immature to have a mostly feminine identity. I'm not judgmental at all, I just can't be happy with someone for romance if they are not what I need for that category so I need to state my specifics up front. : ) Romance is way more strict than friendships unfortuantely. It just is..
Please don't be shy if you like enough about me and are caring and cuddly! I make a great friend too and don't expect romance from everyone, just one great one!? : ) I am unique but will not be someone I am not, just to get your love. I would rather be loved by a few and hated by some for who I am. I need someone who won't leave or grow apart from God or me. And if you are not from Columbus that is a plus not a minus bc we will probably have a better chance of working out bc there is some kind of invisible negative forcefield here that seems to keep everyone from Columbus from being a close person in my life or getting me enough work to fully prosper financially.? I hate it since I am stuck here in CMH for a while. This place has been my Egypt in the past and is now my Babylon of which I am waiting to be delivered out of again. : ( It gets lonely without one or two quality friends and a lover in my life to share everything with.
I love Autumn and everything that comes with it; the leaves and pumpkin everything and the chilled air that works its way to Thanksgiving and then Chanukahh/Christmas and pagan New Year's. The real New Year is always on Rosh Hashanah silly heads, which is at the end of September or beginning of October but I still enjoy getting together for food and a party on
December 31st. : ) I like shopping all year round but especially in the winter time with the Xmas spirit and romance in the air, like in Serindipity! : ) Kate Beckinsale and John Cusack are amazing people anyways.
I work and live mostly alone and barely get to be around people because no one is ever available during the days or nights.? I am hoping to find a woman who can hang out between Sunday at 1230pm through Thursday night for a few evenings or nights somewhere in there!? But I have some availablitiy fridays and saturdys too during the day time. I currently work Thursday nights 10p-7a and Fridays and Saturdays 8p-8am. So currently, I am not free on weekends for very long except in the afternoons until early evenings and it sucks because apparently there are only women who work 1st shift or 2nd and never 3rd like me.? : ) I need someone who is able to match up our schedules for at least a couple of days and nights together each week, yah know!?
I am an easy going family man who hates drama and chaos. I really want a simple life mainly doing dinner and a movie, going out for tea/ coffee, staying at home too while watching a favorite movie or any of my current favorite TV shows: Walking Dead, Revolution, Once Upon a Time, Sleepy Hollow or any of the other ones you like or that I also mention below. I also love intellectual conversations, running errands together and whatever keeps us close emotionally and physically. And Spiritually, would be outstanding as well but has impossible to find with a woman who loves God in Messiah on her own, apart from depending on me for her walk with HIM..
I run and lift weights and love to swim but need a pool to do so with you, hopefully.? I like road trips, camping and anything romantic that promotes emotional and physical intimacy.
I value trustworthy, loving, and caring people like myself who are not shady or have ulterior motives or want to take advantage of a nice guy but who are open, loving and good communicators, even when feelings change or stress attacks you females. I want a woman who can be content vegging and cuddling and relaxing with minimal stress who also does whatever to not let yourself go as well and has positive stress outlets. My buddy and his girlfriend have a perfect set up. They do hookah, dinner, shopping and Netflix the 3 or 4 days and nights in a row they have together. Then they have a couple days of space for work and other alone hobbies. They appreciate each other more because they manage their time well and have the space necessary to make their hearts grow fonder of each other, which I feel is super important. It seems to usually be too much time together after a while or not enough that has ruined my past relationships.. I need balance in a very similar type situation and need someone who will do whatever it takes to achieve a deep appreciation and mutual focus on each other to keep us from getting bored or taking each other for granted.