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38 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:50pm
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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Lover of Oakland, food, nature, music, film and comedy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Chef and restaurant consultant.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
glazing over online questionnaires
The first things people usually notice about me
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My baby blues...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Daniel Woodrell, Elmore Leonard, George Saunders, Flannery O'Connor, Paul Auster, Philip Roth, James Crumley, Samuel Beckett. Very into regional and city histories, anything from Kevin Starr to David Simon to Beth Bagwell.

Urban studies, city planning (in the vein of Jane Jacobs), revisionist history/ peoples' history (a la Howard Zinn). Currently reading a history of the CIA by Tim Weiner and it's outstanding.

MOVIES: Pulp Fiction, Drive, Rushmore, City of God, Dr. Strangeglove, Ghostbusters, Thunderbolt and Lightfoot, The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly, all the Dirty Harry movies, Zodiac, Kill Bill (1&2), Midnight Run, James Bond (minus most of the Brosnan years), Bring it On, Mean Girls, Full Metal Jacket, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?

TV: Deadwood, Justified, The Wire, Mr. Show, Twin Peaks, The Office (UK), Peep Show, Arrested Development, Louie, Six Feet Under, Larry Sanders

TUNES: QOTSA, Spoon, Tom Waits, Howlin' Wolf, The Replacements, Pixies, Frank Black, Beck, Jenny Lewis, Zeppelin, Nada Surf, Sam Cooke, Aimee Mann, Elvis Costello, Hank Snow, George Jones, CASH, Willie Nelson, Steve Earle, Elliott Smith, Nas, Lucinda Williams, Radiohead, Outkast, Albert King, Lil B the Based God, Evan Johns & the H-Bombs, Marc Ribot

FOOD: Italian Food, English Food, Sushi, Szechuan, Mexican
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Almonds and five other things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food, words, cats, girls
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working :(
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Joanna Newsom's "On an Good Day" brings me to tears almost every time.
You should message me if
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You're down for a hike, a drink, a meal, or have a favorite bar or restaurant you want to show me.