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59 Arvada, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 48–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 2
Pacific Islander, White
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am searching for a romantic partner to share in the great adventure of life. Someone whose love I posess and whom I cherish.

I seek only what I offer; naturally attractive, lean, and radiantly healthy, enjoys physical intimacy, open minded, generous, and self disciplined.

Looking for a relationship where we feel well-met emotionally, intelectually, and physically.

Truth in advertising statement: all photos less than 4 years old.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working to live it to its fullest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Linking from and to conversational nodes. Being interested and interesting. Logically deducing complex root causes and failure modes in magnificent machines, but still working on training the staff bot here to not bark up the wrong tree.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is that I will converse with them and show myself warmly, authentically and wholeheartedly. I am always willing to invest in a new friendship and strive to subtly find common ground.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recent non-fiction books for me included: Brene' Browns "The Power of Vulnerability", all works by Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, Neil DeGrasse Tyson, and Sam Harris. Carl Sagans "Dragons of Eden" and "Brocas Brain". Robert Pirsigs "Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance". I have watched all TED Talks, many repeatedly. I am a great fan of Indie/foreign cinema, I just finished streaming most of Javier Bardems works. On TV I watch mostly quality documentary and political programs. I prepare awesome Indonesian dishes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
connection and belonging
being true to myself
serving a purpose greater than myself
romance and intimacy
political stalwartness
moonlit nights on a boat beneath a galactic cloud
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If religious programming were not allowed until the child had attained the age of reason, we would be living in a quite different world.
Be aware that you too are an animal and dependent on the web of nature, try to act accordingly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I work 3 on, 3 off so I have a lot of "Friday nights". Combine this with 5 weeks vacation, I work much less than half time. I never did outgrow disco, so I still enjoy sweating out some frenzied moves in a seething mass of humanity every now and then. About once per month I'm being evaluated, scrutinized, and vetted by a finicky and over-courted female.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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As like most men, I have ocassionally done all the right things...for all the wrong reasons.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Being able to have fun, is essential to a good life, an adventurous attitude, a humorous nature and playful spirit. I believe strongly that this pursuit of romance should be a passionate, wild, and fun filled adventure. Do you have the fortitude and perseverance it takes to see a healthy relationship to fruition...are you down-to-earth, enjoy the natural world as much as the cultural? Are you physically active, spontaneous, affectionate, adventurous, loyal, kind, romantic? This pursuit of romance should be first and foremost a lot of "fun" and I aim to see that it is indeed. Life is very good, and exploring, and sharing the adventures makes it twice as enjoyable. Drop a line if compelled...we just might have quite the time.