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36 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 18
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Finished my Ph.D. in Paleoanthropology (human origins= yes, I have a nerdy type mind but dont act like it......) about a year ago. It was a very long road and so am ready to start the next phase of my life. I teach Biology, Ecology and Anthropology at CUNY as an Adjunct Assistant Professor. Am an ardent environmentalist (avid tree hugger) but not necessarily the hippie type (tho I do have some hippie tendencies...: ) I like to walk the unbeaten path in order to understand the world from different and novel perspectives (read this as spontaneous and inquisitive). Almost went to art school many moons ago and so still dabble in it. In my younger days I was quite athletic (rugby in college etc.) and so still try to be active (bike ride, perhaps?). Museums, travel, beaches, shows, drinking a bottle of wine & throwing frisbee in the park; you name it i'm there! I try to be a good and conscientious human= I have no time for racism, sexism or intolerance of any sort (although i'm not so uptight that I dont enjoy some off color jokes). I used to be a hopeless romantic but life doesnt seem to want to cooperate with that view so now i'm an idealistic realist (if there is such a thing). And theres a whole lot more= not your average bear........
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing up my doctoral thesis for publication.
Getting ready to make the move to Brooklyn or possibly Queens from my little Manhattan studio.
Trying to find a really good woman to share a very interesting life with! Obviously......
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Was once told that I see the world thru beautiful eyes.
Writing poetry.
Telling stories.
Being an extrovert.
I am a bit rough around the edges but I clean up well!
So, cleaning up well : )
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dont look or act like a typical college professor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Kurt Vonnegut, Omnivores Dilemma, 1984, The Jungle, Life of Pi, Brave New World, Dr. Seuss has fantastic stuff, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, Catch 22, Hemingway, George Orwell, Bukowski etc. etc. etc.

Films: Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf, 2001: A Space Odyssey, No Country for Old Men, Night of the Living Dead, Meet John Doe, Apocalypse Now, Watership Down, The Shining, One Flew Over the Cuckoos Nest, The Triplets of Belleville, Fight Club, Fantastic Planet, Blade Runner, Studio Ghibli & etc. documentaries.

Music:Classic Rock, Jazz, Funk, Marley. Always lookin' for something new.

TV: Any science, nature or survival show (but NOT Survivor!)

Food: Will eat anything. I do a lot of cooking= usually pretty healthy stuff.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Mother Nature
Knowledge and novelty
Books (I have quite the little library)
My album collection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Unfortunately, Global Climate Change....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Over the Mountains
Of the Moon,
Down the Valley of the Shadow,
Ride, boldly ride."
The shade replied,
"If you seek for Eldorado."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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-Might as well put this here= Not sure their 'personality bot' has me down very well. 'LESS' independent, old-fashioned, kinky (see 'novelty' above...) & trusting? What?!?
-I am honestly not very photogenic. My sister will be happy to tell you that as well. For what its worth, in person I have been compared to Russel Crowe and Jeremy Renner. A guy in a bar once INSISTED I was Jeremy Renner and bought me a shot.....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-know that life is short and so theres no time for bullshit.....
-self-aware/ actualized
-intelligent, interested and interesting (good conversation is a MUST)
-would like to build a tepee w/ me someday.
-easy to laugh
-loves camping/ hiking/ the natural world
-You can just as easily dress up for an evening at the symphony as lay about in the park flying a kite on a sunny afternoon
-These ideals are not exclusive= there is no perfection.