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Hadeumdi

28 / M / Bisexual / Available

Arlington, Texas

His Details

Last Online
May 12
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Socialist bisexual computer nerd, BFA in video game design, OKC veteran, married to BookOwl, my equally bisexual redheaded nerd-lady. Although we're mainly looking for new friends on OKC, our marriage is not socially exclusive; our friendships and relationships continue either separately or together. As gamers most of our socialisation is online, but we're both looking to change that by meeting some more people locally.

- I am the archetype of an ISTP and a Ravenclaw.
- Creating and interacting are my greatest pleasures. I don't usually enjoy experiences that just involve watching / listening.
- I prefer to identify as pansexual, meaning that gender or biological sex is not a factor in my social or romantic decisions.
- I don't have a smartphone, so I'm not going to be in a text-crazy relationship unless it's online (that's my wife's thing). You and me, let's go out (or stay in and game).
- Ice cream is my God(ess) and Illithids are my ally.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am mulling over several projects, which are either underway or well-developed on paper. I'm sketching apartment and small home layouts, designing lamps and furniture, planning diets and an exercise routine, writing scenarios for a D&D game, and laying out prospects for a balcony garden. I'm also looking for someone who would like to sit and discuss such prospects on a calm summer night.

I no longer have any goals for the future except to be happy and healthy. I've started a new part-time job after a four-year drought of unemployment, and recently moved into a new apartment. Although things are going well now, I remember when I was alone and suffering not so long ago, and I hate seeing other people going through the same ordeal that I did. This is just one of the many reasons why we are open to sharing our lives with others, to remove exclusion, and make the social world a more open and loving place.
I’m really good at
Game design, graphic design, building computers, architectural layouts, interior design.
I'm pretty skilled at creating and building all kinds of things but rarely have the money or resources to do so.
Better than many at tedious fine-detail work but not as good as the ones you'll hear about in the media.
The first things people usually notice about me
The most common thing I hear from people is that I have lovely nails. As for what people actually notice first, no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I grew up on a nonstop binge of sci-fi and fantasy novels, and as such got a bit burned out by the age of 18. I had an affair with McCullers and Rand in my late teens, and eventually settled down with Nietzsche. Today I write more than read.

I hunt down music of all types that appeal to me from Soundcloud and Bandcamp.

I don't generally watch movies as I hate sitting still for very long, especially where only one subject matter is concerned. Sometimes fantasy works will hold my interest.

Television: Black Books, IT Crowd, Father Ted, Are You Being Served?, The Jack Benny Show, The Daily Show, The Late Late Show (Nostalgia: Mighty Max, Pirates of Dark Water, Space Ghost C2C)

Why is there no video games section? Are they still uncool? Are we still living in 1992? Well too bad here it is: Oni, Half-Life 2, Painkiller, Neverwinter Nights, Sims 2, Portal, World of Warcraft, Binding of Isaac, Civ 5, Doom 2, Warcraft 3, and Super Mario Brothers 3 among many other classic games. Yes I'm an avid Steam user, aren't you?!

I eat everything but fast food. ICE CREAM ADDICT.
The six things I could never do without
(in no concrete order)
Music
Seasons
My Lady
Pen and paper
Vestigal Organs
All the stuff I don't have and the people I don't know
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ice cream, 3d modeling, video game design, MtG decks, Photoshop, architecture, improving personal health, eggnog, finding a job, destroying capitalism
On a typical Friday night I am
on the computer. I hear that things happen out there in the world but I don't know what or where, and I've certainly never been invited.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cannot distinguish between public or private information, only what scares people off or not. Ask me anything.
Feel free to stalk my personal Tumblr and find out as much about me as you want (icecreamorgy.tumblr.com)!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You love forests, ice cream, abandoned buildings, rattlesnakes, nerf guns, 120 degree summer days and 60 degree fall nights, dodging mosquitoes in a swimming pool and drinking lemonade at sunset.

If you want to actually meet! I have many internet friends, I have NO "real life" friends in the state.

If you feel pressured to be a monogamous "straight or gay" individual but don't want to be.

If you're like me and are normally too shy to message people.

I don't reply to one-sentence messages / generic quips, especially those like "hey howa doin lol" so if my profile doesn't say "replies often" there you go.