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49 Salt Lake City, UT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 21
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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No summary, my life is a work in progress and I love that. Change and growth are beautiful things. Without them tomorrow will look just like today, string enough of them together and it looks like Groundhog Day...what's the point in that?
If you are looking for specifics about me, you'll gain much more insight by reading my answers and explanations in the 'questions ' section. I will also have a chance to learn more about you through the answers you provide in order to see mine.
What I’m doing with my life
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What I'm doing with my life? The truthful response is, trying to live it all a little better today than I did yesterday. I completed my masters degree in clinical psychology a few years ago and absolutely love the work I do. My clients amaze me every day and I have a front row seat when their hard work pays off and lives change. It keeps me grounded by reminding me each day that we all walk a hard path through this world and a little empathy goes much further than a lot of judgement and anger.

**** It has become apparent that I need to be very clear on two points in regard to my degree and the work I do:
1) No, if we were to meet, I am NOT going to psychoanalyze or diagnose you...that's not how I roll with friends and family. Do you enjoy doing your job 24/7? Ya, neither do I.
2) Along the same lines as #1, I am here to meet new people just like you are. I am not here to become your cyber-therapist. Again, not how I roll. ****

Moving on...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jai alai (never played), canasta (I believe it's a card game), and underwater basket weaving (an acquired skill)
As you may have already deduced, I am quite skilled at being a smart-ass. Also, I can be a tad anti-authority. Ok, more than a tad at times.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look absolutely nothing like Derek Jeter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The War Of The End Of The World (Mario Vargas Llosa)
L'etranger/The Stranger (Albert Camus)
A Moveable Feast (Ernest Hemingway)
The Old Man And The Sea (Ernest Hemingway)
Man's Search For Meaning (Viktor Frankl)
Redirect (Timothy Wilson)
The Dharma Bums (Jack Kerouac)
Hell's Angels (Hunter S Thompson)
John Barleycorn (Jack London)
Naked Lunch (William S Burroughs)
Che Guevara: A Revolutionary Life (Jon Lee Anderson)
Mindfulness For Beginners: Reclaiming The Present Moment--And Your Life (Jon Kabat-Zinn)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My brain
Good Friends
The best dog ever - My golden doodle
A new, good, book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about the fact that there are people on this planet who earn an honest living putting fudge into ornate boxes, ornate boxes of fudge into bigger boxes, and big boxes of fudge into shipping containers to be enjoyed around the world. These people are fudge packers. I like fudge and believe these people deserve a little more respect.
Yes, I'm a dork but at least I crack myself up. ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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For some reason, only partially explainable to even myself, I own a copy of Cat in the Yiddish. Go figure.

True story, in sixth grade I broke up with a girl who responded by informing me that we weren't going together in the first place. We are friends to this day and she has never mentioned it again.
You should message me if
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you are bat shit crazy and think I would enjoy an incoherent, rambling, eight page letter explaining why you believe pinto beans will one day rule the world.

Honestly, if you feel the urge to contact me then by all means, contact me. After all, that's what we are here for.

If you have a healthy amount of kink in your personality, all the better.