I'm a compassionate, equanimous nerd with a strong interest in video games (Halberdman is actually an old gamer handle of mine), books, exercise, martial arts, massage (hoping to be an LMT some day), writing, and dancing. I run, lift, and used to bike frequently and I enjoy climbing when I get the chance. It's worth mentioning that I consider myself an intersectional feminist and ally and hope you are at least friendly to the idea of equality. In the future I hope to travel the world (China, Austria, Ireland, and Iceland are big contenders) and learn to cook like a pro. I adore animals of all kinds, the fluffier the better, though big dogs occasionally make me nervous due to bad childhood experiences. I also have a secret soft spot for romance stories that I rarely indulge. Physical intimacy is important to me, but I'm not looking to jump right in (even to something casual) until I know and trust you at least a bit.
I identify as Polyamorous in that I can have multiple serious, loving relationships at the same time. This is kind of a big thing for me, and it does not mean that I am afraid of commitment or am wantonly promiscuous. It does mean that I am all about clear, open, honest communications and abundance model thinking, however. I always enjoy a chat about the ethics and logistics of non-monogamy so that's a talking point if you're looking for an icebreaker :)
I am looking for matches with strong physical chemistry and a lot of emotional connection. My ideal relationship would be one in which the involved partners are sexually compatible, emotionally invested in each other, and find each other interesting on an intellectual level. If we can talk for hours without getting bored, can turn each other on with a glance, and have a lot of interests in common and can discuss high level topics respectfully, I want you in my life.
I'm primarily seeking partners here, be they sexual or romantic. That said, I like to let relationships be what they are; whether that's romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between, so let's get chatting and see where it takes us without any pressure or expectations. Romance aside, I'd love to friend some people on Steam and game a bit too, even if you aren't interested in a relationship or friendship outside of games.