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Halberdman

25 Hockessin, DE Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a compassionate, equanimous nerd with a strong interest in video games (Halberdman is actually an old gamer handle of mine), books, exercise, massage (hoping to be an LMT some day), writing, and dancing. I run, lift, and used to bike frequently and I enjoy climbing when I get the chance. It's worth mentioning that I consider myself an intersectional feminist and ally and hope you are at least friendly to the idea of equality. In the future I hope to travel the world (China, Austria, Ireland, and Iceland are big contenders) and learn to cook like a pro. I also have a secret soft spot for romance stories that I rarely indulge. Physical intimacy is important to me, but I'm not looking to jump right in (even to something casual) until I know and trust you at least a bit.

I identify as Polyamorous in that I can have multiple serious, loving relationships at the same time. This is kind of a big thing for me, and it does not mean that I am afraid of commitment or am wantonly promiscuous. It does mean that I am all about clear, open, honest communications and abundance model thinking, however. I always enjoy a chat about the ethics and logistics of non-monogamy so that's a talking point if you're looking for an icebreaker :)

I am looking for matches with strong physical chemistry and a lot of emotional connection. My ideal relationship would be one in which the involved partners are sexually compatible, emotionally invested in each other, and find each other interesting on an intellectual level. If we can talk for hours without getting bored, can turn each other on with a glance, and have a lot of interests in common and can discuss high level topics respectfully, I want you in my life.

I like to let relationships be what they are, whether that's romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between, so let's get chatting and see where it takes us without any pressure or expectations. Romance aside, I'd love to friend some people on Steam and game a bit too, even if you aren't interested in a relationship or friendship outside of games.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved cross-country from Oregon back to Delaware in September and I'm getting myself re-established, opening up my social circle, and continuing to better myself as much as I can. I am working in technology and access control security at the moment, with hopes of going into information security as a career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a chess wiz and I play a mean game of words with friends. You've been warned.
Massage. No seriously, not just saying that. I study the stuff in my spare time.
'Liking' profiles and then spending days agonizing over what to write to start a conversation.
Listening about things that matter and helping people through tough times.
Certain other things that I'd need to be involved with you for you to experience.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People tell me I'm hard to read, though I like to think of myself as pretty expressive. If I'm not wearing my glasses, a lot of people seem to comment on my eye color (green).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Don't worry, there's a cull coming soon. This got kind of out of hand...

Games
Now this is a big category....I'll try to keep it short here
Final Fantasy VIII, X
Xenogears
Xenosaga 1
Fire Emblem: Awakening and Path of Radiance
Monster Hunter Tri
Sid Meier's Civilization II, IV, V, Beyond Earth
Borderlands 2
Supreme Commander: Forged Alliance (a personal favorite)
Endless Space
Master of Magic
Master of Orion 2 (there was no 3)
Rise of Nations
Dark Souls 1 and 2
Dwarf Fortress (mostly DF2012, still getting used to .40)
Freespace 2
Kerbal Space Program
Mass Effect Trilogy
Sins of a Solar Empire
Team Fortress 2
CS:GO
Pokemon R/B, G/S, X/Y
DDR 6-8 (plus ITG and Rebirth, ask me about my chin scar)
Knights of the Old Republic
Arcanum
Artemis
So many visual novels...another good talking point if you're into them or unfamiliar with them
Europa Universalis III and IV
Evil Genius
Elder Scrolls 3-5 (especially skyrim)
Age of Empires II

Books:
Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson
Swiss Family Robinson by Johan Wyss
Desert Solitaire by Edward Abbey
The Chronicles of Amber by Roger Zelazny
Dune by Frank Herbert
The Iliad by Homer
Mistborn Trilogy by Brandon Sanderson
Beowulf
Raymond Feist's books, in general
Dragonbone Chair, Stone of Farewell, To Green Angel Tower (AKA Memory, Sorrow, and Thorn) by Tad Williams
The Way of Kings (AKA the Stormlight Archive) by Brandon Sanderson (I like this guy a lot actually)
Crystal Singer, Crystal Line, Killashandra by Anne Mccaffrey

Movies:
Love Actually
Hunt for Red October
Princess Mononoke
Spirited Away
Real Genius
The Emperor's New Groove
Dead Poet's Society
Terminator 1+2
Gladiator
Disney in general (esp. Lion King, Aladdin, Mulan)
12 Angry Men
Rashomon
Seven Samurai
Hero

Shows:
Code Geass
Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann
Firefly
Shakugan no Shana
other stuff too, though mostly animated vs live action

my anime-planet is Halberdman as well if you want to check it out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: Technology, computers are the best of things (especially for video games!)
2: Books, gotta love reading
3: Exercise, I feel so much better after working out
4: People, they're interesting
5: My brother, we're a team
6: Challenges, something to aspire to
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Games I'm playing or want to play, stories I'm reading/writing or want to read/write, deep level strategic analysis of whether to drink that third cup of coffee or not, sex and physical connection and their effect on social relationships, philosophical questions (ethics and free will come up a lot), how I can better use my time to improve myself without driving myself into the ground.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing video games, reading books, working out at the gym, or having deep conversations about the nature of love, life, sex, interpersonal relationships, or philosophy with whomever is around
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to nerd out about games, chat about fun adventures you've had, or are just curious about what makes me tick. Or if any of my talking points intrigued you. I recommend the chin scar story, personally.

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