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61 Lansing, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:58pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Hard working, honest and caring. Expect and accept differences in other people as normal, not an argument. Sometime 'a little out there' but usually maintain a connection to planet earth! Explorer of alternatives in life. Spiritual not religious...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, trying to get my house in order... Hoping to find someone to share what I have... Learning to take new dating! Know that I can, now just seeking my 'Miss Close Enough' to make my good life better. Tolerate working in a hospital setting but need the insurance and a regular paycheck ya know! Still, grateful I get to do something I love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people, giving consideration to their point of view. Music; still playing guitar and singing, some keyboard. Like to build things around the home; woodworking stuff. My job, working with substance abuse clients. Also have small private practice doing substance abuse assessments. Love to cook, but hard for just one person. Can I tempt anyone with my 'personal recipe' chocolate-malt fudge?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair(!). Has a life of it's own most of the time though I DO try to keep it in order...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Reading about history (mostly); prefer comedies or something with a bit of humor to it; Deadliest Catch and Oddities for TV faves (!); Listen to classical mostly, play everything from folk to rock; eat fairly simple (cheese, meat and pasta), like to go out...just not alone!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dreams, coffee, a guitar, a book, chocolate, a project, Indy 500 (the whole month of May) / Indycar series, TV (occasionally I like to watch something)...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In the process of redecorating, have several projects going. Décor might be described as New Age / Celtic / Gothic meets The Who!
Hoping to find someone to accept me for myself and willing to share my world...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home... Would like / rather have someone to be with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well...I did work for Nixon...
You should message me if
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You know yourself, first. Admire someone with a mind of their own and that can express themselves. Wacky sense of humor required! If I am the one you (might) want, not need.

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