It's been about three years since I've updated this and not everything has changed but I think what has changed most is my outlook. I'm a little older, a little wiser, and a little calmer. I was very good at partying but know now I want much more out of life. It's an adventure, and I want someone to experience it with.
I want to find someone who can show me how to smile. Literally, I've never had a very good smile, only a little smirk, and charming eyes. :) ..guess it'd be more like this --> ; ] Someone who will help me with the things I'm not good at, like snow boarding, and skiing. And watching sports. Haha. And being better at fitness and eating healthy. Which I am actually pretty good about. I've changed the way I eat, and have been getting more and more into physical training. I like kickboxing, yoga, and running. Ran a 15k a couple years ago, pretty fun, but I really liked running the Warrior Dash this year. I'm looking for someone who would accompany me on a nice date, or enjoy a good movie at home with. Been a while since I've had someone to curl up next to on the couch, think I've missed that more than anything.
I love going on vacations, but it gets old being the single guy every trip I take with my friends, who are all now getting engaged and married. Which I'm not looking for right away. Pretty simple guy that's just looking to get what he gives. Honesty and openness is most important to me. If we hung out and you thought we would only be friends, I'd want to know that. I have no problem telling someone how I feel, or hearing how they feel, it's just easier that way. I am in no way religious, but I'm not against religion or someone having faith, I know why they need it or want it in their lives. I get my morals, my positivity, my hope and my strength from my upbringing - my family, my friends, and from myself, from inside. I am an extremely positive "uplifting person" or so I've been told. I just know how bad stress is for you, and I don't allow it. I'm '420 friendly,' as a friend on here also said. But I truly believe in its medicinal qualities. I actually wrote a poem about it. Haha. But I say if something is negative, lets work through it together and make it positive. I believe in a good heart and a deep soul. I'll admit I'm not very book smart, but that doesn't bother me. If you want to have a super intellectual conversation about how something is made or how something works - I'll be a good listener. But try not to bore me, haha. Common sense on the other hand, I'm on the other end of the spectrum. So much so I point out when something isn't right, but I make it fun, I'll only pick on you a little bit. You will have the chance to get me back I promise, I have my 'blonde' moments. My street smarts, I'm furthering my learning, through experiences and adventures. I'm big in to nature, and survival. I want to hike, camp, and fish more. I like to face my fears, especially heights. I've been bungee jumping and zip lining a few times and would LOVE to go skydiving and parasailing. And I wouldn't mind a partner for some of those activities. I guess first and foremost I'm looking for a friend. Someone to get to know and someone to help remind me and find who I am. Interestingly the older I've gotten, the younger I've looked and better condition I've gotten myself in. Every year I strive to be in the best physical and mental condition of my life. It's been a bumpy road, but I never stop fighting for what I want. I want to be better than I was before, on all levels. To be a better friend, a better person, and a better lover.
Nice guy, who's finished last for too long. I've tried being a good guy to too many girls and whether they weren't ready, or weren't what they seemed, I've gotten hurt. Now I wanna have some fun. I'm way too open and honest, and it's gotten me in trouble.
Most girls think I'm a player, even past girlfriends. Which I'm not, when I'm in a relationship I'm the most dedicated guy you could find. Never cheated on a girlfriend. I've got a good sense of humor, and don't believe in paying dutch. Just don't expect me to buy you drinks at a bar all night long.
My perfect girl isn't perfect. Isn't the skinniest or hottest. She's considerate, into me, not too quiet, not too loud, and not too aggressive(that's me). She has a job, or a career, and friends, but knows how to handle her time as well. She's not a bitch, but can be, she's not a pushover, and can make a decision. She likes to party, but not go out every weekend, let alone every night. She enjoys us and is open about what she wants.
If your not every part of that last part that's okay, but know ultimately that is what I'm looking for. I'm here for dating and meeting new people. If we meet we may only hangout once or who knows..
I'm good lookin, I like to party, I like to have a good time.
I am creative, open, and confident