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30 M Syracuse, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:25am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My new story..

It's been about three years since I've updated this and not everything has changed but I think what has changed most is my outlook. I'm a little older, a little wiser, and a little calmer. I was very good at partying but know now I want much more out of life. It's an adventure, and I want someone to experience it with.

I want to find someone who can show me how to smile. Literally, I've never had a very good smile, only a little smirk, and charming eyes. :) ..guess it'd be more like this --> ; ] Someone who will help me with the things I'm not good at, like snow boarding, and skiing. And watching sports. Haha. And being better at fitness and eating healthy. Which I am actually pretty good about. I've changed the way I eat, and have been getting more and more into physical training. I like kickboxing, yoga, and running. Ran a 15k a couple years ago, pretty fun, but I really liked running the Warrior Dash this year. I'm looking for someone who would accompany me on a nice date, or enjoy a good movie at home with. Been a while since I've had someone to curl up next to on the couch, think I've missed that more than anything.
I love going on vacations, but it gets old being the single guy every trip I take with my friends, who are all now getting engaged and married. Which I'm not looking for right away. Pretty simple guy that's just looking to get what he gives. Honesty and openness is most important to me. If we hung out and you thought we would only be friends, I'd want to know that. I have no problem telling someone how I feel, or hearing how they feel, it's just easier that way. I am in no way religious, but I'm not against religion or someone having faith, I know why they need it or want it in their lives. I get my morals, my positivity, my hope and my strength from my upbringing - my family, my friends, and from myself, from inside. I am an extremely positive "uplifting person" or so I've been told. I just know how bad stress is for you, and I don't allow it. I'm '420 friendly,' as a friend on here also said. But I truly believe in its medicinal qualities. I actually wrote a poem about it. Haha. But I say if something is negative, lets work through it together and make it positive. I believe in a good heart and a deep soul. I'll admit I'm not very book smart, but that doesn't bother me. If you want to have a super intellectual conversation about how something is made or how something works - I'll be a good listener. But try not to bore me, haha. Common sense on the other hand, I'm on the other end of the spectrum. So much so I point out when something isn't right, but I make it fun, I'll only pick on you a little bit. You will have the chance to get me back I promise, I have my 'blonde' moments. My street smarts, I'm furthering my learning, through experiences and adventures. I'm big in to nature, and survival. I want to hike, camp, and fish more. I like to face my fears, especially heights. I've been bungee jumping and zip lining a few times and would LOVE to go skydiving and parasailing. And I wouldn't mind a partner for some of those activities. I guess first and foremost I'm looking for a friend. Someone to get to know and someone to help remind me and find who I am. Interestingly the older I've gotten, the younger I've looked and better condition I've gotten myself in. Every year I strive to be in the best physical and mental condition of my life. It's been a bumpy road, but I never stop fighting for what I want. I want to be better than I was before, on all levels. To be a better friend, a better person, and a better lover.

Old story..

Nice guy, who's finished last for too long. I've tried being a good guy to too many girls and whether they weren't ready, or weren't what they seemed, I've gotten hurt. Now I wanna have some fun. I'm way too open and honest, and it's gotten me in trouble.

Most girls think I'm a player, even past girlfriends. Which I'm not, when I'm in a relationship I'm the most dedicated guy you could find. Never cheated on a girlfriend. I've got a good sense of humor, and don't believe in paying dutch. Just don't expect me to buy you drinks at a bar all night long.

My perfect girl isn't perfect. Isn't the skinniest or hottest. She's considerate, into me, not too quiet, not too loud, and not too aggressive(that's me). She has a job, or a career, and friends, but knows how to handle her time as well. She's not a bitch, but can be, she's not a pushover, and can make a decision. She likes to party, but not go out every weekend, let alone every night. She enjoys us and is open about what she wants.

If your not every part of that last part that's okay, but know ultimately that is what I'm looking for. I'm here for dating and meeting new people. If we meet we may only hangout once or who knows..

I'm good lookin, I like to party, I like to have a good time.

I am creative, open, and confident
What I’m doing with my life
Career oriented, party time, looking for new adventures. I've got eight years with my current company, and have worked in sales and now management. It's been a good experience, a nice start to my 401k, my savings and ultimately making my money make me money. Currently working on a business plan. I may be looking to get back into school for business management, or even just take a small business course. I'm an entrepreneur.
I’m really good at
Thinking. Being Creative. Ideas. Drawing. Sales. Finances.
Being sweet. Being a dick. Bringing pleasure.
Being healthy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read Stephen King, and books on Survival. I love to curl up and watch a good movie with a twist, or one that's over the top visually stunning. Some of my favorites are Memento, Fight Club, Drive, Sin City, Wicker Park, Vanilla Sky, Savages, The Number 23, Anchorman, Dazed and Confused, The Beach, Inception, and most zombie movies. I don't watch much TV but I love a few shows...Nip/Tuck, Breaking Bad, Always Sunny, SOA, Walking Dead, Wilfred. Pretty much just FX shows and BB. When I had cable I also watched a lot of Man V Food, and Anthony Bourdaine, love those travel shows. I'm also secretly in love with the show Survivor, but shhh don't tell anyone.

Music has been my escape, especially lately...listen to a lot of Ace Reporter, My Morning Jacket, Sleeping At Last, Arctic Monkeys, Deer Tick, The Head and The Heart, Roadkill Ghost Choir, Minus the Bear, Gym Class Heroes, Mr Gnome, I am The Avalanche, The Steets, Cold War Kids, Bon Iver, Alkaline Trio, John Gold, The Builders and The Butchers, Macklemore, Boyhitscar, Cream, At The Drive In, To Whom, Heislegend, and Zeppelin. My friends make fun of me because I don't like Tom Petty songs. And I like Joe Rogan and Ari Shaffir podcasts.

I make a spinach/banana/coconut almond milk/flax and chia seed and hemp oil smoothie every morning. Sometimes I add all spice, nutmeg, and cinnamon. They're delicious. I have a nice/cool kitchen and I love to cook. It'd be nice to have someone to cook for, or to cook with in my kitchen.
Favorite food is a Ham and Cheese Jreck Sub, or Dino BBQ. I have a love for exotic fruits and vegetables, fish and seafood or a nice steak or burger. Blarney makes the best! Oh yeah fish tacos from Coppertop or Catfish Quesadillas from Alto Cinco are also a favorite. And Thai food and Sushi! Haha I like food!
The six things I could never do without
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If I'll find love and companionship again. How I'll protect her in a crumbling world. And the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, chilling at home or out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You find me interesting or attractive, or both. If you're both, and if we share any interests, or have anything in common.