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Hamish62

49 / M / Straight / Single

Easthampton, Massachusetts

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No need to click heels 3 times, thankfully.....

Jun 2, 2011

......sooooo, we had an interesting ol' time here in the lower Pioneer Valley between the hours of 4 and 9 last night; hadn't ever resorted to taking refuge in a basement but was down there with the New Siamese boy (not pictured) for 45 minutes after a 200-foot-wide beast, feeding off the Connecticut, crossed it, I-91 and tore through the South End of Springfield on its way toward Worcester, leaving considerable damage in its wake but, thankfully, very few fatalities/casualties as of now - still, a state of emergency has been declared and the tab has to be at least a quarter-billion in total, I would estimate from the footage so far viewed - not much happened up where I am in Hampshire County but still a very tense stretch all the same!

......sooooo, we had an interesting ol' time here in the lowerPioneer Valley between the hours of 4 and 9 last night; hadn't everresorted to taking refuge in a basement but was down there with theNew Siamese boy (not pictured) for 45 minutes after a 200-foot-widebeast, feeding off the Connecticut, crossed it, I-91 and torethrough the South End of Springfield on its way toward Worcester,leaving considerable damage in its wake but, thankfully, very fewfatalities/casualties as of now - still, a state of emergency hasbeen declared and the tab has to be at least a quarter-billion intotal, I would estimate from the footage so far viewed - not muchhappened up where I am in Hampshire County but still a very tensestretch all the same!

No need to click heels 3 times, thankfully.....

Jim Henderson, A True Candidate for Reform in MA

Oct 20, 2010

  I'd like to ask a favor of those who know me on OK Cupid and live in Massachusetts, that on Tuesday, November 2 they vote for JIM HENDERSON, who is running as an Independent candidate for Secretary Of The Commonwealth.

Please copy and paste the link provided into your browser window to watch a short video and hear from the man himself.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=looj0IYW31E&hd=1

The present and recurring occupant, Democrat William 'Bill' Galvin, has kept a very low profile in repeated elections for the better part of a decade, demonstrating an unacceptable degree of contempt for, and isolation from, many of the people he was elected by and perhaps even a sense of sheer entitlement to the office in question. In so doing, he has utterly failed to make any case to them for his continuing as Secretary Of The Commonwealth.

 

I haven't done any sort of work in the political arena for quite some time, but was inspired to volunteer my efforts for Jim, deciding as he did to run without party affiliation or financial support because he wanted NOTHING to compromise his ability to serve ALL the citizens of this state, to provide greater voice and choices, make Election Day much more relevant and vital than it may have been in years past.

Jim offers true reform of the electoral process through expanded online access, increased transparency and major innovations. Above all else, he will be COMPLETELY accountable and far more publicly visible, to every last one of his constituents. So please, do vote for him on November 2. Thank you.

  I'd like to ask a favor of those who know me onOK Cupid and live in Massachusetts, that on Tuesday, November 2they vote for JIM HENDERSON, who is running as an Independentcandidate for Secretary Of The Commonwealth.

Please copy and paste the link provided into your browser window towatch a short video and hear from the man himself.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=looj0IYW31E&hd=1

The present andrecurring occupant, Democrat William 'Bill' Galvin, has kept a verylow profile in repeated elections for the better part of a decade,demonstrating an unacceptable degree of contempt for, and isolationfrom, many of the people he was elected by and perhaps even a senseof sheer entitlement to the office in question. In so doing, he hasutterly failed to make any case to them for his continuing asSecretary Of The Commonwealth.

 

Ihaven't done any sort of work in the political arena for quite sometime, but was inspired to volunteer my efforts for Jim, deciding ashe did to run without party affiliation or financial supportbecause he wanted NOTHING to compromise his ability to serve ALLthe citizens of this state, to provide greater voice and choices,make Election Day much more relevant and vital than it may havebeen in years past.

Jim offers true reform of the electoral process through expandedonline access, increased transparency and major innovations. Aboveall else, he will be COMPLETELY accountable and far more publiclyvisible, to every last one of his constituents. So please, do votefor him on November 2. Thank you.

Jim Henderson, A True Candidate for Reform in MA

Something very, very weird happened.....

Feb 24, 2010

.....as I've always loved so much of the Philadelphia International sound, including acts such as the O'Jays, The Spinners, Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes and The Stylistics, I did a little investigating of Amazon and Google, coming up with a 2004 book written about the label called 'A House On Fire: The Rise And Fall Of Philadelphia Soul' by John A. Jackson. Elated to find a  copy in mint condition for only about $10 with shipping, I snapped up and received it a week ago tomorrow.....didn't have a chance to start reading before my eyes landed on this bulletin from the Inquirer 3 days later and, well.....the TIMING is just kinda freakish.....

 

Officials: Philadelphia International fire was set

Waterlogged gold records - Teddy Pendergrass' Heaven Only Knows, Lou Rawls' Unmistakably Lou - lay amid rubble in the offices of Philadelphia International Records yesterday while McFadden and Whitehead's "Ain't No Stoppin' Us Now" played on a boom box.

Fire officials ruled yesterday that the Sunday morning blaze, which started in a stockroom, had been set but declined to release any other information. The fire severely damaged the brick building on South Broad Street where the Sound of Philadelphia was born.

"We feel violated that someone would go into such a sacred place and create such havoc," said Kenny Gamble, who owns the building at 309 S. Broad St. along with his partner, Leon Huff, and songwriter and producer Thom Bell.

Gamble said yesterday that detectives from the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives had shown him and Huff pictures of a person taken from the scene by authorities. "We kind of know who did it," he said, adding that it was not someone he or Huff recognized. "The bottom-line question is: Why?"

No one has been charged in connection with the fire.

The main casualties of the fire were memorabilia and merchandise to be sold in the PIR retail store on the ground floor of the building where Chubby Checker recorded "The Twist," when it housed the Cameo Parkway record label. That was before Gamble, Huff, and Bell bought the building in 1970. The building suffered structural and water damage, and about 40 gold records were harmed, as were irreplaceable photos, said Gamble's nephew Chuck Gamble, PIR's executive vice president, who estimated the damage "in the millions."

The recording studio where Candy & the Kisses cut "The 81" - Gamble and Huff's first songwriting collaboration, in 1964 - and where Gamble's ex-wife Dee Dee Sharp recorded "Mashed Potato Time" in 1962 went unharmed. No damage was done to any master tapes, Chuck Gamble said. Those are housed in an underground vault outside the city.

"The Almighty wrapped his arms around the studio," said Huff, of the storied third-floor recording facility where he has been working on his first solo album in three decades on a Yamaha grand piano that was unscathed by the blaze.

"It hurts," Kenny Gamble said. "There's so much water damage and smoke and fire damage that the whole place will be have to gutted. But we'll be back. Stronger than ever.

"Maybe we'll write a song about it. 'The Day They Burnt Philly International Down.' "

 

Only to go with the book which unwittingly foretold of it, Kenny - and BTW, I was 300 miles away at the time - honest!

 

 

.....as I've always loved so much of the PhiladelphiaInternational sound, including acts such as the O'Jays, TheSpinners, Harold Melvin & The Blue Notes and The Stylistics, Idid a little investigating of Amazon and Google, coming up with a2004 book written about the label called 'A House On Fire: The RiseAnd Fall Of Philadelphia Soul' by John A. Jackson. Elated to finda  copy in mint condition for only about $10 with shipping, Isnapped up and received it a week ago tomorrow.....didn't have achance to start reading before my eyes landed on this bulletin fromthe Inquirer 3 days later and, well.....the TIMING is just kindafreakish.....

 

Officials: Philadelphia International fire was set

Waterlogged gold records - Teddy Pendergrass' Heaven OnlyKnows, Lou Rawls' Unmistakably Lou - lay amid rubblein the offices of Philadelphia International Records yesterdaywhile McFadden and Whitehead's "Ain't No Stoppin' Us Now" played ona boom box.

Fire officials ruled yesterday that the Sunday morning blaze,which started in a stockroom, had been set but declined to releaseany other information. The fire severely damaged the brick buildingon South Broad Street where the Sound of Philadelphia was born.

"We feel violated that someone would go into such a sacred placeand create such havoc," said Kenny Gamble, who owns the building at309 S. Broad St. along with his partner, Leon Huff, and songwriterand producer Thom Bell.

Gamble said yesterday that detectives from the federal Bureau ofAlcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives had shown him and Huffpictures of a person taken from the scene by authorities. "We kindof know who did it," he said, adding that it was not someone he orHuff recognized. "The bottom-line question is: Why?"

No one has been charged in connection with the fire.

The main casualties of the fire were memorabilia and merchandiseto be sold in the PIR retail store on the ground floor of thebuilding where Chubby Checker recorded "The Twist," when it housedthe Cameo Parkway record label. That was before Gamble, Huff, andBell bought the building in 1970. The building suffered structuraland water damage, and about 40 gold records were harmed, as wereirreplaceable photos, said Gamble's nephew Chuck Gamble, PIR'sexecutive vice president, who estimated the damage "in themillions."

The recording studio where Candy & the Kisses cut "The 81" -Gamble and Huff's first songwriting collaboration, in 1964 - andwhere Gamble's ex-wife Dee Dee Sharp recorded "Mashed Potato Time"in 1962 went unharmed. No damage was done to any master tapes,Chuck Gamble said. Those are housed in an underground vault outsidethe city.

"The Almighty wrapped his arms around the studio," said Huff, ofthe storied third-floor recording facility where he has beenworking on his first solo album in three decades on a Yamaha grandpiano that was unscathed by the blaze.

"It hurts," Kenny Gamble said. "There's so much water damage andsmoke and fire damage that the whole place will be have to gutted.But we'll be back. Stronger than ever.

"Maybe we'll write a song about it. 'The Day They Burnt PhillyInternational Down.' "

 

Only to go with the book which unwittingly foretold of it, Kenny- and BTW, I was 300 miles away at the time - honest!

 

 

Something very, very weird happened.....

A pair of YouTube song links I want to share....

Nov 30, 2009

.....as a few people on this site know, I take great pleasure in sharing some of the music which has great meaning to me - this weekend I've discovered a good number of YouTube clips, and there are two I'd like to praise in this journal post, the first of which is among my ALL-time favorite songs and both from a band called Rubicon (for you Eighties fans, where Jack Blades and Brad Gillis honed their skills not long before forming Night Ranger) featuring an absolutely phenomenal singer, the late, soulful Max Haskett. He compares very favorably to Peter Cetera's best work with Chicago and the band's sound stems in no small part from Sly & The Family Stone as the sax player, Jerry Martini, was in that combo; some very, VERY funky songs on their two albums - in addition to those two groups, both songs fall in with those of Ambrosia, Toto and fellow San Franciscans Tower Of Power.....please do let me know what you thought of them! From 1978 (NOTE: copy and paste the links; they aren't live)

 

"I'm Gonna Take Care Of Everything", with intro by 'Music Mike' (highest chart position: #28)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVniQ-lhP0k

"Far Away" (highest position: unknown)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZq3C60XwS8&NR=1

 

And a bonus, "Home And Dry", by the great Gerry Rafferty (of "Stuck In The Middle With You" and "Baker Street" fame; highest chart position: also #28, 1979)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOHiZACoYFI

 

 

.....as a few people on this site know, I take great pleasure insharing some of the music which has great meaning to me - thisweekend I've discovered a good number of YouTube clips, and thereare two I'd like to praise in this journal post, the first of whichis among my ALL-time favorite songs and both from a band calledRubicon (for you Eighties fans, where Jack Blades and Brad Gillishoned their skills not long before forming Night Ranger) featuringan absolutely phenomenal singer, the late, soulful Max Haskett. Hecompares very favorably to Peter Cetera's best work with Chicagoand the band's sound stems in no small part from Sly & TheFamily Stone as the sax player, Jerry Martini, was in that combo;some very, VERY funky songs on their two albums - in addition tothose two groups, both songs fall in with those of Ambrosia, Totoand fellow San Franciscans Tower Of Power.....please do let me knowwhat you thought of them! From 1978 (NOTE: copy and paste thelinks; they aren't live)

 

"I'm Gonna Take Care Of Everything", with intro by 'Music Mike'(highest chart position: #28)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVniQ-lhP0k

"Far Away" (highest position: unknown)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZq3C60XwS8&NR=1

 

And a bonus, "Home And Dry", by the great Gerry Rafferty (of"Stuck In The Middle With You" and "Baker Street" fame; highestchart position: also #28, 1979)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOHiZACoYFI

 

 

A pair of YouTube song links I want to share....

Overturn of Gay-Marriage Law in Maine Shameful

Nov 4, 2009

Yesterday's passage of a referendum to overturn a gay-marriage law in Maine was, as with California's, hardly the finest hour for that state, one long recognized for a stubbornly independent streak (mostly for having elected one of the first governors unaligned with either major party) but also, like both Vermont and New Hampshire, populated with a significant percentage of xenophobes, some of whom haven't hesitated to loudly declare how much they love freedom - but only theirs, apparently.....following the vote count, people such as Scott Fish of the Stand For Marriage - Maine rhetorically - and disingenuously - asked, "what's the hurry?", knowing that this measure had effectively answered his question for the foreseeable future and making himself look very, VERY smug. Not that he likely cared much.....

There is only ONE way for such legislating of discrimination to stop forever, and that is for Washington to pass an all-encompassing law protecting the rights of gays, lesbians and transgendered people to marry outside of religious settings, without challenge.....problem being, the party in present power has been terrified of a backlash by its more pious members - especially after passing the Hate Crimes Act - and thinks nothing of spending billions to ram through an unarguably unconstitutional health insurance mandate (per an analysis by the Georgetown University Law School) which seriously calls into question its recognition of, and commitment to, personal freedoms.....above all, it's events like the one in Maine yesterday that make me extremely reluctant to ever refer to myself as a Christian in any shape or form again.....and I am not just saddened, but thoroughly sickened by this pyrrhic victory, that a vital right I have as a heterosexual has been inexplicably denied men and women that are every bit my equals.

Yesterday's passage of a referendum to overturn a gay-marriagelaw in Maine was, as with California's, hardly the finest hour forthat state, one long recognized for a stubbornly independent streak(mostly for having elected one of the first governors unalignedwith either major party) but also, like both Vermont and NewHampshire, populated with a significant percentage of xenophobes,some of whom haven't hesitated to loudly declare how much they lovefreedom - but only theirs, apparently.....following the vote count,people such as Scott Fish of the Stand For Marriage - Mainerhetorically - and disingenuously - asked, "what's the hurry?",knowing that this measure had effectively answered his question forthe foreseeable future and making himself look very, VERY smug. Notthat he likely cared much.....

There is only ONE way for such legislating of discrimination tostop forever, and that is for Washington to pass anall-encompassing law protecting the rights of gays, lesbians andtransgendered people to marry outside of religious settings,without challenge.....problem being, the party in present power hasbeen terrified of a backlash by its more pious members - especiallyafter passing the Hate Crimes Act - and thinks nothing of spendingbillions to ram through an unarguably unconstitutional healthinsurance mandate (per an analysis by the Georgetown University LawSchool) which seriously calls into question its recognition of, andcommitment to, personal freedoms.....above all, it's events likethe one in Maine yesterday that make me extremely reluctant to everrefer to myself as a Christian in any shape or form again.....and Iam not just saddened, but thoroughly sickened by this pyrrhicvictory, that a vital right I have as a heterosexual has beeninexplicably denied men and women that are every bit my equals.

Overturn of Gay-Marriage Law in Maine Shameful

MJ, Farrah and Me.....

Jun 26, 2009

While I never felt very invested in either of them, as a Sixties child, the one-two death punch of Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson, although neither all that unexpected, nonetheless shook me up - especially coupled with the passing of another such person, Bea(atrice) Arthur, a few weeks ago.....and still another looming in Patrick Swayze. Approaching 50 myself, I can begin to feel the angel of death's cold breath on the back of my own neck!

Like a lot of other teenagers, I did watch "Charlie's Angels" as an ABC show, but it won't ever compete with, say, "The Six Million Dollar Man" or "The Bionic Woman" for me in the ol' memory bank - I'll always remember FFM for her interesting role in the movie adaptation of "Logan's Run" and one of her earliest bit roles in a first season "Partridge Family" episode.....bizarre talk show appearances aside, she went on to become a very good, thoughtful actress that better reflected her true personality.....

As for MJ, I never was a big fan of his solo efforts, and so nothing he did after 1979 will ever compete with the infectious Jackson 5 songs I best know, as well as songs such as "Ben" (influencing as unlikely a person as Eddie Vedder in the PJ track "Blood") "Just A Little Bit Of You" (another Philadelphia International-influenced record, written by the legendary Holland brothers) "Off The Wall" and "Rock With You" - I've said it before and I'll say it again, without remorse: "Thriller" is one of the most overrated albums in music history, more a reflection of the mid-Eighties than anything else (and not an always-flattering one). Yes, it was expertly constructed and, in terms of showcasing Michael's dancing abilities, accomplished, but it hasn't aged well at all; both Billie Jean" and "Beat It" haven't held up to virtually infinite plays, "The Girl Is Mine" was dumber than a rock (no offense meant to Sir Paul) and "Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'" remains one of the most thoroughly annoying songs ever produced, right up there with "I Wonder If I Take You Home" by Lisa Lisa and any number of inane hip hop numbers - in short, with the possible exception of "Human Nature", the record lacks the taut soul which burst from those Jackson 5 classics - I do like the title track a lot, though.....

Like Farrah, despite his notoriously eccentric behavior and scandals (he never should've been allowed NEAR the Beatles catalogue!) Michael Jackson was, at his core, a very caring, compassionate individual, although those personality traits sometimes were slightly twisted in their expression  - unlike FF, however, he was a fragile survivor of abuse bordering on torture, just like the similarly eccentric Brian Wilson, and it explains any possible deviations for which he was excoriated. If nothing else, MJ can, hopefully, be free of his demons now.....R.I.P.

 

 

While I never felt very invested in either of them, as a Sixtieschild, the one-two death punch of Farrah Fawcett and MichaelJackson, although neither all that unexpected, nonetheless shook meup - especially coupled with the passing of another such person,Bea(atrice) Arthur, a few weeks ago.....and still another loomingin Patrick Swayze. Approaching 50 myself, I can begin to feel theangel of death's cold breath on the back of my own neck!

Like a lot of other teenagers, I did watch "Charlie's Angels" asan ABC show, but it won't ever compete with, say, "The Six MillionDollar Man" or "The Bionic Woman" for me in the ol' memory bank -I'll always remember FFM for her interesting role in the movieadaptation of "Logan's Run" and one of her earliest bit roles in afirst season "Partridge Family" episode.....bizarre talk showappearances aside, she went on to become a very good, thoughtfulactress that better reflected her true personality.....

As for MJ, I never was a big fan of his solo efforts, and sonothing he did after 1979 will ever compete with the infectiousJackson 5 songs I best know, as well as songs such as "Ben"(influencing as unlikely a person as Eddie Vedder in the PJ track"Blood") "Just A Little Bit Of You" (another PhiladelphiaInternational-influenced record, written by the legendary Hollandbrothers) "Off The Wall" and "Rock With You" - I've said it beforeand I'll say it again, without remorse: "Thriller" is one of themost overrated albums in music history, more a reflection of themid-Eighties than anything else (and not an always-flattering one).Yes, it was expertly constructed and, in terms of showcasingMichael's dancing abilities, accomplished, but it hasn't aged wellat all; both Billie Jean" and "Beat It" haven't held up tovirtually infinite plays, "The Girl Is Mine" was dumber than a rock(no offense meant to Sir Paul) and "Wanna Be Startin' Somethin'"remains one of the most thoroughly annoying songs ever produced,right up there with "I Wonder If I Take You Home" by Lisa Lisa andany number of inane hip hop numbers - in short, with the possibleexception of "Human Nature", the record lacks the taut soul whichburst from those Jackson 5 classics - I do like the title track alot, though.....

Like Farrah, despite his notoriously eccentric behavior andscandals (he never should've been allowed NEAR the Beatlescatalogue!) Michael Jackson was, at his core, a very caring,compassionate individual, although those personality traitssometimes were slightly twisted in their expression  - unlikeFF, however, he was a fragile survivor of abuse bordering ontorture, just like the similarly eccentric Brian Wilson, and itexplains any possible deviations for which he was excoriated. Ifnothing else, MJ can, hopefully, be free of his demonsnow.....R.I.P.

 

 

MJ, Farrah and Me.....

National Health Insurance Mandate Indefensible

Jun 20, 2009

 Like many of you, I am - have been - a progressive Democrat for quite some time and I've personally witnessed, am somewhat emboldened by, a respectable amount of critical thinking and questioning on these virtual pages. Conversely,  I am aware that this posting will nonetheless likely alienate a significant number of those on OKC.

But I must, MUST say this with every last ounce of conviction in me: the fast-progressing movement in Congress toward a national health insurance mandate, all too similar to the disastrous one in Massachusetts, is the most dangerous abuse of power in this nation's history - in fact, the biggest step toward martial law in our lifetimes through a door to further abuses. For any of you that truly value the preservation of freedom - everything that this country has stood for well over 200 years, the ability to make choices about our own health is THE most basic, sacred human right there is - it has long informed the abortion debate and right-to-die movement for that very reason. PLEASE, do NOT let them get away with it! Contact your representatives in Congress and TELL them they cannot be allowed to push through such a massive imposition on that right. It is TYRANNY, pure and simple - I just can't say it loudly enough. And to suggest that any reform won't succeed without such a provision is sheer demagoguery, fear-mongering of the sort we suffered through 2 consecutive terms of George W. Bush.

By all means, encourage them to improve access to health CARE, give us REAL alternatives to what presently exists - but loudly discourage them from crossing this unprecedented line. More is at stake than so many recognize.....and believe me,  we will regret it for the rest of our lives if they are successful.

 Like many of you, I am - have been - a progressiveDemocrat for quite some time and I've personally witnessed, amsomewhat emboldened by, a respectable amount of critical thinkingand questioning on these virtual pages. Conversely,  I amaware that this posting will nonetheless likely alienate asignificant number of those on OKC.

But I must, MUST say this with every last ounce of conviction inme: the fast-progressing movement in Congress toward a nationalhealth insurance mandate, all too similar to the disastrous one inMassachusetts, is the most dangerous abuse of power in thisnation's history - in fact, the biggest step toward martial law inour lifetimes through a door to further abuses. For any of you thattruly value the preservation of freedom - everything that thiscountry has stood for well over 200 years, the ability to makechoices about our own health is THE most basic, sacred human rightthere is - it has long informed the abortion debate andright-to-die movement for that very reason. PLEASE, do NOT let themget away with it! Contact your representatives in Congress and TELLthem they cannot be allowed to push through such a massiveimposition on that right. It is TYRANNY, pure and simple - I justcan't say it loudly enough. And to suggest that any reform won'tsucceed without such a provision is sheer demagoguery,fear-mongering of the sort we suffered through 2 consecutive termsof George W. Bush.

By all means, encourage them to improve access to health CARE,give us REAL alternatives to what presently exists - but loudlydiscourage them from crossing this unprecedented line. More is atstake than so many recognize.....and believe me,  we willregret it for the rest of our lives if they are successful.

National Health Insurance Mandate Indefensible

Hey, OKC horror fans!

Jun 11, 2009

And I know there are a few.....


Live video coverage of the 2009 Stoker Awards (for excellence in horror writing) in Burbank CA will be available this Saturday, June 13th at a dedicated website:


http://www.stokers2009.com/


The awards ceremony itself commences at 8:30 Pacific/11:30 Eastern; among the nominees is a best friend of 25 years, Corrine DeWinter, who is up for her 2nd Stoker in horror poetry. Also nominated is Stephen King (of course) and other horror luminaries.....check it out!


 

And I know there are a few.....


Live video coverage of the 2009 Stoker Awards(for excellence in horror writing) in Burbank CA will be availablethis Saturday, June 13th at a dedicatedwebsite:


http://www.stokers2009.com/


The awards ceremony itself commences at 8:30 Pacific/11:30Eastern; among the nominees is a best friend of 25 years,Corrine DeWinter, who is up for her 2nd Stoker inhorror poetry. Also nominated is Stephen King (ofcourse) and other horror luminaries.....check it out!


 

Hey, OKC horror fans!

Seeking New Friends and Advice in Southwestern CT

Feb 22, 2009

After 45 years in Western Massachusetts, I'm actively exploring a move to southwestern Connecticut by the end of May, focusing upon Naugatuck, Beacon Falls or Thomaston (the last less likely, given how far it is from the coast) as possible places to live, if they turn out to be comparable in key ways to where I'm now living in Easthampton MA (split a $650 rent and an average of about $350 a month in utilities.....) Have contacted several employment agencies in Fairfield County and will be sending them my resume in the next week or two. Also headed down to do some reconnaissance shortly.....

But I have some very big concerns.....this area where I am now, though not nearly as cosmopolitan, is very driven by academia and there isn't much work - permanent or otherwise; been temping most of the last 8 years and have zero desire to go back to school, what with 2 decades of diversified experience in administrative and customer service.....just finishing up one of the most fulfilling (and bittersweet; part of relocating one of the most well-known companies in the world from Springfield to AL) assignments I've ever had, a very communal, supportive workplace (so naturally it's being cut up and hauled away.....)

So I'm asking any of you that hail from around Naugatuck and Fairfield County: can someone seeking a more.....organic, adult workplace, and wants to avoid suffocatingly corporate environs, make a living down there? Are there some dynamic, open-minded and creative people I should meet that can readily appreciate someone that has a largely DIY ethic with respect to learning? My lifestyle is comparatively modest (I also worry that the average lifestyle down there is far too rich for my wallet or blood, so I don't know how easy it might be to meet compatible female partners or even just friends) but I suspect that, if there's anywhere in the country there'll be more opportunities for work in the short term, it's relatively closer to NYC. While there don't appear to be any long-term prospects up here, there are a few good friends and familiar things left but it's become clear to me that I need to instigate some really big changes in my life. I'm in serious flux - feels distinctly like a crossroads of sorts - but very worried about going from the proverbial frying pan into the fire, though!

Also, I have an 17.5-year-old Siamese and about 2 tons of stuff to move, not to mention a paraplegic mother back in Springfield - would prefer not to have to move again right away, either.....can any of you recommend places to live for around that money ($650) or know of anybody in need of a responsible roommate? Anybody of like mind, concerns and values that would like to converse in general please do contact me - thanks; much appreciated!

After 45 years in Western Massachusetts, I'm actively exploring amove to southwestern Connecticut by the end of May, focusing uponNaugatuck, Beacon Falls or Thomaston (the last less likely, givenhow far it is from the coast) as possible places to live, if theyturn out to be comparable in key ways to where I'm now living inEasthampton MA (split a $650 rent and an average of about $350 amonth in utilities.....) Have contacted several employment agenciesin Fairfield County and will be sending them my resume in the nextweek or two. Also headed down to do some reconnaissanceshortly.....

But I have some very big concerns.....this area where I am now,though not nearly as cosmopolitan, is very driven by academia andthere isn't much work - permanent or otherwise; been temping mostof the last 8 years and have zero desire to go back to school, whatwith 2 decades of diversified experience in administrative andcustomer service.....just finishing up one of the most fulfilling(and bittersweet; part of relocating one of the most well-knowncompanies in the world from Springfield to AL) assignments I'veever had, a very communal, supportive workplace (so naturally it'sbeing cut up and hauled away.....)

So I'm asking any of you that hail from around Naugatuck andFairfield County: can someone seeking a more.....organic, adultworkplace, and wants to avoid suffocatingly corporate environs,make a living down there? Are there some dynamic, open-minded andcreative people I should meet that can readily appreciate someonethat has a largely DIY ethic with respect to learning? My lifestyleis comparatively modest (I also worry that the average lifestyledown there is far too rich for my wallet or blood, so I don't knowhow easy it might be to meet compatible female partners or evenjust friends) but I suspect that, if there's anywhere in thecountry there'll be more opportunities for work in the short term,it's relatively closer to NYC. While there don't appear to be anylong-term prospects up here, there are a few good friends andfamiliar things left but it's become clear to me that I need toinstigate some really big changes in my life. I'm in serious flux -feels distinctly like a crossroads of sorts - but very worriedabout going from the proverbial frying pan into the fire,though!

Also, I have an 17.5-year-old Siamese and about 2 tons of stuff tomove, not to mention a paraplegic mother back in Springfield -would prefer not to have to move again right away, either.....canany of you recommend places to live for around that money ($650) orknow of anybody in need of a responsible roommate? Anybody of likemind, concerns and values that would like to converse in generalplease do contact me - thanks; much appreciated!

Seeking New Friends and Advice in Southwestern CT

Name Your Price for Marillion's 15th Record

Sep 20, 2008

Admittedly one of my favorite bands for over 25 years, Marillion, the Aylesbury UK quintet that has pushed every conceivable envelope in independent music for over a decade (such is the devotion of their fans that they financed, in ADVANCE, 3 albums and underwrote an entire North American tour) now has made all 20 songs (actually, one bonus download, a reprise) on Happiness Is The Road, their newest to be released commercially October 20th, completely available for download - at a price to be determined on an individual basis. Upon signing up on the sponsoring site, MusicGlue, you'll be able to click on a dedicated link that will bring you to the band's page, and downloading any one or all of the tracks comprising 2 volumes, Essence and The Hard Shoulder, will bring up a brief video greeting from Marillion explaining why they decided to take this approach.....

While this isn't an entirely new tactic - Radiohead pioneered it by making their last effort In Rainbows available at a variable price as well - no artist has since provided every track from what is essentially a double album. I highly recommend that fans of Radiohead, Coldplay, Rush, Pink Floyd, Dream Theatre, Genesis, even the Beatles and Who check out Marillion at their earliest convenience for some of the best music they've never heard and what is arguably the UK's best-kept secret.

With songs such as "Kayleigh", "Incommunicado", "He Knows You Know", "Easter", The Uninvited Guest", "The Great Escape", "Beautiful", "These Chains", "Rich", "Between You And Me", "You're Gone", "Neverland", "Thank You Whoever You Are" and more, recognized masterpieces such as Misplaced Childhood, Brave, marbles and now Happiness - to say nothing of near ones such as Clutching At Straws, Season's End, Afraid Of Sunlight, This Strange Engine, marillion.com and anoraknophobia - this is a great opportunity to hear why us anoraks remain so loyal to the boys!

Here is the direct link to their MusicGlue page (and they are not paying me for this, either! but any contribution you can make to offset the cost of this generous gesture would be appreciated, as they will tell you....)

http://www.musicglue.com/marillion
Admittedly one of my favorite bands for over 25 years, Marillion,the Aylesbury UK quintet that has pushed every conceivable envelopein independent music for over a decade (such is the devotion oftheir fans that they financed, in ADVANCE, 3 albums and underwrotean entire North American tour) now has made all 20 songs (actually,one bonus download, a reprise) on Happiness Is The Road, theirnewest to be released commercially October 20th, completelyavailable for download - at a price to be determined on anindividual basis. Upon signing up on the sponsoring site,MusicGlue, you'll be able to click on a dedicated link that willbring you to the band's page, and downloading any one or all of thetracks comprising 2 volumes, Essence and The Hard Shoulder, willbring up a brief video greeting from Marillion explaining why theydecided to take this approach.....

While this isn't an entirely new tactic - Radiohead pioneered it bymaking their last effort In Rainbows available at a variable priceas well - no artist has since provided every track from what isessentially a double album. I highly recommend that fans ofRadiohead, Coldplay, Rush, Pink Floyd, Dream Theatre, Genesis, eventhe Beatles and Who check out Marillion at their earliestconvenience for some of the best music they've never heard and whatis arguably the UK's best-kept secret.

With songs such as "Kayleigh", "Incommunicado", "He Knows YouKnow", "Easter", The Uninvited Guest", "The Great Escape","Beautiful", "These Chains", "Rich", "Between You And Me", "You'reGone", "Neverland", "Thank You Whoever You Are" and more,recognized masterpieces such as Misplaced Childhood, Brave, marblesand now Happiness - to say nothing of near ones such as ClutchingAt Straws, Season's End, Afraid Of Sunlight, This Strange Engine,marillion.com and anoraknophobia - this is a great opportunity tohear why us anoraks remain so loyal to the boys!

Here is the direct link to their MusicGlue page (and they are notpaying me for this, either! but any contribution you can make tooffset the cost of this generous gesture would be appreciated, asthey will tell you....)

http://www.musicglue.com/marillion
Name Your Price for Marillion's 15th Record