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Handyman1957

57 M Oklahoma City, OK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 55–80
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi there. So you're checking me out? That could be a good thing if we mesh together well! I should let you know up front tho, what I am looking for.

I am looking for friends - actually, one "special" friend. I'm not looking for a friend with "benefits" but I will admit that if the chemistry is there, it would be something I would be open to. But no, I'm not looking to "score".

If we became friends with benefits and in time, were loyal and grew closer, then I would open to a committed relationship. I'm not looking to jump into a relationship tho. I have done that and I've been burned. So not going to do that again. I really want to know the person before I consider that.

So with that out of the way, what are you looking for? While you think about that, here's more about me.

I know what I want in a relationship.. HONESTY A best friend, someone that feels they can be totally completely open with me. Much laughing and a positive attitude is a must! You should never be afraid to express yourself.

GOSH Be kind to one another. Seems as though most relationships start out really strong and the next thing your feeling like the ball chain. I want someone who can be themselves.. A best friend. I know in order to established any type of relationship you have to develop a solid friendship. What comes after that would be a bonus. I want more than anything to find that Ms. Wonderful.

I have and always will believe in the golden rule. Do unto others as you would have other do unto you. I believe you should always pay it forward, rather it is something as simple as opening a door for someone, or letting them pull out of a drive way, and sometimes let the person behind you checking out with only one or two items, let them go first. Something as simple as telling someone they look nice. I want that special person that puts a smile on my face every time I think about them or when they text me.

Life should be simple with common sense used on a daily bases. If life could be so simple. Seems like, and this is pretty common, you always want what you can't have. And isn't it a shame. This is where honesty should kick in. I don't lead women on. Especially if I have no intention of going forth. I feel this is what is wrong with relationships today. Always one sided.

I enjoy movies, camping, travel, and always up for adventure. Do you love to ride motorcycles? Great! I love to go for a ride to nowhere in particular and would enjoy it so much more if you are part of it! I also enjoy things like bowling, going to yard sales and flea markets.

Do you love doing home projects? Great! That's what I do for a living and it would be so much more fun to do home projects together and work together once we're a couple.

Must love dogs because I have 4 great dogs - one beagle, one vizsla, and 2 labs.

Let's explore this one way road we call "life". Because we won't get out of it alive, let's make it the best it can be - together! If you have any questions for me, just ask. Looking forward to hearing from you!
What I’m doing with my life
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working, riding my motorcycle when I can , relaxing, enjoying my new house and playing with the dogs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing houses and being a good guy! Love riding. I am also very good at fixing computers, being a true friend and making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My personality. I'll make you feel good about yourself and laugh.

Here's a story for you. If it resonates with you, let me know!

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Hi ladies,

I keep reading and seeing women asking "where are the nice guys at" or "are there any decent men left".

So, what happened to all the nice, decent guys?

The answer is simple: you made them disappear! Maybe you did that without realizing it and if so, you're forgiven, but now you're wondering where he is.....

If you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a platonic "Mr. Nice Guy" pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, cook meals for you, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were dating treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how that "Mr. Nice Guy" was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, and so that your friends wouldn't tease you, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." By the way, where are those friends of yours who laughed with you about "Mr. Nice Guy" today??

Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish jerk of a boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your platonic buddy, "Mr. Nice Guy" drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this "Mr. Nice Guy" was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend you were so in love with eventually cheated on you, became boring, drank too much or used drugs or maybe perhaps became abusive and beat you? Or you eventually realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now that you're single again, wondering, "What happened to all the nice guys?" you now know where that "nice guy" went.

After you used "Mr. Nice Guy" for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, after you laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion, because you valued the aloof jerk of a boyfriend and shunned the attentive "just-a-friend", "Mr. Nice Guy" faded out of your life. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life.

"Mr. Nice Guy" probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the bad boy type of boyfriend that you had. But he couldn't do that because he's true to himself. And so now that you're alone, and wondering where you can find "Mr. Nice Guy" - think about this.....

Before you shun that boring email because he's too short, too fat, balding, too poor, or dresses not so good - consider that he just may be the "Mr. Nice Guy" you've been looking for.

Sincerely,
"Mr. Nice Guy"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love that movie, Shine. You've got to see it sometime. It can be a tear jerker. I also love Mr Holland's Opus and many other movies. Love to watch movies at home where I can relax, eat, and smoke.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Isn't this obvious? Love, honesty, food, air, roof over my head and a few more things!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All kinds of things. I even think when I'm sleeping! Sometimes I take a nap because the answers to complex problems come to me that way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home. I'm a homebody. I go to work, I come home. No fooling around. But I would like to get active again and have fun with someone who is nice!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I told you, it would not be a secret anymore!!
You should message me if
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you have an interest, are a good communicator and you sincerely think we would be good to each other and for one another!