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Handyman1957

56 M Oklahoma City, OK

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:50am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am amazed. So many women looking for someone and they never check their emails - and those that do, rarely respond!!!!! Amazing, isn't it? Laziness... No effort - nothing gained....

Looking for a long term relationship with someone who is fun to be with. Being shy is ok! I like to ride my motorcycle and go on rides to new places, exploring, stopping to eat or swim. I like cooking bbq, bowling, movies at home.

I own my home which I would like to share. I'm renovating it little by little. I have my own home repair business and would enjoy working together in the business with a woman who is optimistic, someone who smiles just because she is happy and joyful that she's alive, someone passionate about sharing her life with a good man. I prefer I prefer someone with at least a high school diploma. I have dated a few women who dropped out of school after 6th grade and 8th grade and it never worked because they're too uneducated to communicate with me on my level. Having common interests is a good start to build a relationship on, but things alone do not matter by themselves.

Wanna know more? Email me or reply to your email!!
What I’m doing with my life
working, riding my motorcycle when I can , relaxing, enjoying my new house and playing with the dogs.
I’m really good at
Fixing houses and being a good guy! Love riding. I am also very good at fixing computers, being a true friend and making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
My personality. I'll make you feel good about yourself and laugh.

Here's a story for you. If it resonates with you, let me know!

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Hi ladies,

I keep reading and seeing women asking "where are the nice guys at" or "are there any decent men left".

So, what happened to all the nice, decent guys?

The answer is simple: you made them disappear! Maybe you did that without realizing it and if so, you're forgiven, but now you're wondering where he is.....

If you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a platonic "Mr. Nice Guy" pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, cook meals for you, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the (other) guy that you were dating treated you.

At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how that "Mr. Nice Guy" was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, and so that your friends wouldn't tease you, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were "just friends." By the way, where are those friends of yours who laughed with you about "Mr. Nice Guy" today??

Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish jerk of a boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.

Eventually, your platonic buddy, "Mr. Nice Guy" drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this "Mr. Nice Guy" was, admittedly, a little weird, if you weren't dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend you were so in love with eventually cheated on you, became boring, drank too much or used drugs or maybe perhaps became abusive and beat you? Or you eventually realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now that you're single again, wondering, "What happened to all the nice guys?" you now know where that "nice guy" went.

After you used "Mr. Nice Guy" for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, after you laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion, because you valued the aloof jerk of a boyfriend and shunned the attentive "just-a-friend", "Mr. Nice Guy" faded out of your life. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life.

"Mr. Nice Guy" probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the bad boy type of boyfriend that you had. But he couldn't do that because he's true to himself. And so now that you're alone, and wondering where you can find "Mr. Nice Guy" - think about this.....

Before you shun that boring email because he's too short, too fat, balding, too poor, or dresses not so good - consider that he just may be the "Mr. Nice Guy" you've been looking for.

Sincerely,
"Mr. Nice Guy"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love that movie, Shine. You've got to see it sometime. It can be a tear jerker. I also love Mr Holland's Opus and many other movies. Love to watch movies at home where I can relax, eat, and smoke.
The six things I could never do without
Isn't this obvious? Love, honesty, food, air, roof over my head and a few more things!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All kinds of things. I even think when I'm sleeping! Sometimes I take a nap because the answers to complex problems come to me that way.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at home. I'm a homebody. I go to work, I come home. No fooling around. But I would like to get active again and have fun with someone who is nice!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I told you, it would not be a secret anymore!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 55–80
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you have an interest, are a good communicator and you sincerely think we would be good to each other and for one another!