I'm looking for someone to hang with, that doesn't want to get married 2 weeks after we start going out. Just looking for a friend to spend some time with, at least to start. ;)

I think I know how to treat a woman. I come from a small town with small town values. I can be a little ornery after you get to know me, I'm patient, kind, and generally laid back. I love kids, love pets. My house used to be called "the zoo" by friends! LOL!!

I like to blend into a crowd not stand out! I would rather watch other people, then have other people watching me! I don't like it being all about me.

Not into the bar scene AT ALL.. (Too much drama!!), Give me a nice restaurant, nice meal, a couple of drinks, and some good conversation, and I'm a happy guy!!

I have a lot of hobbies for which none I have gotten very good at, but I have fun at all of them, when I have the time to do them!

I just took a test on here.. I think it came real close to describing me. Here are the test results:

The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test ...
5 - the Observer

you chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE (aka "The Thinker").

"I need to understand the world"

Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful.

How to Get Along with Me

• Be independent, not clingy.

• Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.

• I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.

• Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable.

• Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity.

• don't come on like a bulldozer.

• Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.

What I Like About Being a FIVE

• standing back and viewing life objectively

• coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects

• my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure

• not being caught up in material possessions and status

• being calm in a crisis

What's Hard About Being a FIVE

• being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world

• feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all

• being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be

• watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally

FIVEs as Children Often

• spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on

• have a few special friends rather than many

• are very bright and curious and do well in school (Well I'm at least curious... LOL!)

• have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers

• watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information

• are sensitive; try to avoid interpersonal conflict

FIVEs as Parents

• are often kind, perceptive, and devoted

• are sometimes authoritarian and demanding

• may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate

I'm a network engineer, AKA "Computer Nerd". I have worked at the same place for around 10 years now. I also am a certified pilot. I went to Ohio University trained to be a pilot, then after graduating, I got into computers! Oh well! LOL!

I like to think I'm good at what I put my mind to. Sometimes this however will get me into trouble. I found out I'm NOT good at some things. Like fixing a leak in my daughters bathroom. They have professionals for stuff like that! LOL! I've been told I'm really good at kissing. :/

My dimples. I smile a lot, and I'm really quiet, But I'm not really shy, just like to sit back and watch.. You learn a lot about people from watching.

I have had 3 people over the past 2 weeks tell me: "You are just so easy to get along with, Your so easy going"

So it must be true! LOL

Books: Would have to be tech stuff. - Like I said above.. I'm a computer nerd!

Movies: Action / Adventure / Good Cop , Bad Cop types of movies. Also Like a good Comedy too.

Food: Just put it in front of me! I'll try it! I love going to new places and having food I've never had before.

My Kids
Internet Access
Texting
My Job
Laughter
My Camera

What am I'm thinking! No really I spend a lot of time thinking about my kids, and when will the weekend get here!

Either going out with friends, or hanging with my kids.. Depends on the weekend. Well, Okay... Spent on the couch watching movies and eating popcorn are always an option too.

I have never tried sushi. :/

You want to hang out, chat, text, etc... I'm not a very forward person, so if your interested say something! :)