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38 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 7:01am
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Not at all
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Entertainment / Media
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I"m a Entrepreneur/dreamchaser. My motto is " I'm a funnyman but i'm dead serious"
I've been fortunate enough to have created a career/business out all the things i've loved and grew up with. Skateboarding, Hip hop, graffiti art and helping other artists get to the heights their talent deserves. We Do everything from booking of hip hop artists and bands, to booking tours, to doing event coordination. Doing skateboard events and lots and lots of performing! The stage is an amazing place to be, hearing and seeing how your thoughts and ideas, amplified over a loud soundsystem effects and inspires is amazing!

I"m not single. I"m plural. I"m poly, omni mindstated. I don't just have one style of music i like.I don't have only one kind of food i like. I don't only have one person that i adore and allow myself to be moved by. The only mono thing i have is "ONE LOVE," and live by the ethics of Kharma. Those 2 combined create a universal love as a state of being as opposed to doing. Badabing!

*Ive been asked why am i on OKC then if i'm not looking for "the one"
This is another great portal to connect with amazing, interesting, unique, sexy beautiful people. There is so much to share and experience between all and none. Let ourselves be moved!
*** I know this is covered at the bottom but after getting my feet wet id like to clarify a few things to tighten the scope
*Yes i have children, and an amazing confidant. So i'm not looking for a mom for them thanks The family from grandmother to grandchild is solid:)

* I'm not looking for a girlfriend, nor a wife, nor some shallow physical rae rae. I'm looking for whole people, not a half who is looking for their other half. You know "Whole" people who have become the love they would often seek out in others. Share bears, not needy beedies! Ok.. now that i have clarified a bit.

I'm personally not a big fan of "all or none" type relationships as much as i once was. I know longer search in others what is and has been inbededded within. I seek and share love, life with like-minded people. Love is a currency and the more sincere exchanges of good sentiment the more that's created. Let's Not confuse that with irresponsible hedonism. I'm not talking drunken partying, free love, sex etc.. ( if that's your thing do you) but i'm talking love as an intention. It's the intentions baby!

I've learned long ago that no one person, place, passion or thing
can provide all that i need nor desire from this universe. There is so
much to learn, share, teach and experience, divinity and lessons all
to learn that come in the form of many different people, places and
experiences. I'm a very intimate person and really prefer to really
connect with people deeply, even if its just through sk8boarding,
music or whatever tool we choose. My voice, my friendship, my touch,
my art, are all my tools of sharing intimacy. I believe that the
decision of what medium is used should be determined by the two
involved in that exchange and only them. It's an interesting balance
between "family" time and "me" time, finding the balance and having a good flow of love and energy in both of those really feed the roots of
each and makes them both more fruitful and rewarding.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living and building, being an optimistic revolutionary, learning the many many ways of this human vessel i'm in. Enjoy every minute of it. Life is good and getting better. Spending lots of time in the action sports (skateboarding, snowboarding etc) world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
speed scrabble, making people smile, finding ways to help loved ones get to where they are trying to go. Linking students with teachers. Communicating clearly and not being afraid "agreeing to disagree"
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Locks ( hair), goofy smile, my pigeon toes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All malcolm gladwell books, blink, tipping point, outliers, what the dog saw. Nelson george " death of rythm and blues" and "hip hop america"
Russell simmons "life and def" and "do you"
To name a few.
Del the funky homosapien, roots manuva, saiian supa crew, buju banton, red rat, general degree, sade, teena marie, ame lerrieux, masta ace, chip fu, zero 7, expose, cover girls, shannon, lil suzy
Rodney o and joe cooley.
Szechuan chicken, pad woon sen, bbq galore, strawberry, mango, peach, acai smoothies, (self made) roscoe's chicken and waffles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Skateboard, The Microphone, Bowling ball, Can of paint ( spray paint)
Malcolm gladwell's insight, My amazing hodge podge family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much time is spent by folks playing the game of life, like basketball with no hoops set up. Just dribblin' around. Hard to make a shot when you have no goal or hoops to shoot for :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If i'm not on tour doing shows, performing, i'm relaxing at home, or maybe at the skatepark
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no belly button :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have read my profile and you "Feel it" You enjoy meeting new people beyond just the surface idle chatter. If you like good sarcasm, jokes, but yet logical, witty and enjoy thinking and smiling. I'm a busy dreamchasing guy so i don't have a lot of time but i have lots of love, light, and energy! If you or looking for one to call "yours" i may not be the "one" . I'm a superfresh companion along your journey though. Yes indeed