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40 M Honolulu, HI

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:41pm
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary

About me: I grew up in Southern California, but am living here in Hawaii and not planning to move anywhere else. I love it here on Oahu! I still have family in SoCal, so I visit about once a year. I'm pretty sraight forward and honest, and respectful. People have said I'm honest to a fault, very happy, polite, a true gentleman, and personable.

I like to surf, hike, snorkel, and basically anything under the sun. I'm usually joking around with friends and laugh or smile a lot.

Honestly I feel like an oxymoron. Although I have the desire to be in a relationship and find that deep connection with someone, I have way too much on my plate to be dating or looking for something serious. So thats why I am looking for friends, but if something happens great! But if we just remain friends, then I have another friend! If you have questions please feel free to ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Living aloha, working at a hospital, spending time with friends, surfing, and enjoying the time I do have off.
I work overnight shifts, so if you see that I looked at your profile at a very late/early hour, its probably my night off
I’m really good at
-Seeing the bright side of things
-talking story
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm happy go lucky, smiling and laughing a lot. Keeping positive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I grew up listening to 80's/90's alternative, like some hip hop, but not really a country fan at all. I have an appreciation for classical and jazz. I still go enjoy some live jazz or local cover bands every now and then.
I tend to like comedies, some dramas, suspense, but not into horror movies.
Books, I hardly read or finish books rather. The last one I started was the Kite Runner.
I love most foods, I just stay away from spicy or hot! My go too foods are sushi, anything japanese, fruit and sometimes veggies, I also like chinese, italian, vietnamese, korean bbq, and pizza!
The six things I could never do without
Outside the norms, -water, food, shelter, etc.
-the ocean/surfing
-laughs and good friends
-my car/transportation
-God for providing all of it, I'm not super religious or a churchy, I have plenty of faults/vices, I just know where to give credit where credit is due. Don't worry I won't bible beat you, haha sooo not my style!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Questions like....
"Am I actually finally growing up?"
" Wait, what is growing up supposed to look like anyway?"
"Did I make it?"
Yeah I guess you could say I'm a kid at heart :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Fridays are never the same with me, so whatever my friends are up to. I also have an odd work schedule so sometimes I'm at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like beer (Egads! Did he really say that?) But I like whiskey!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are looking for a friend and you like
-drinks and pupu's
-you're able to see the big picture in life/situations