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Haplo98

28 / m / straight / Single

Springfield, Illinois, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 8" (1.72m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating

Smokes No

Drinks Rarely

Drugs Never

Religion Atheism and somewhat serious about it

Sign Aries but it doesn't matter

Education Graduated from high school

Job Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev

Income Rather not say

Kids Likes children

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English

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My self-summary

I'm 28 and I am a mortgage lender for a larger company. I spend a lot of time on my computer, reading, or chillin with my cats. I enjoy playing basketball and watching hockey (on tv or in person).

What I'm doing with my life

Ahhh the joys of life. Trying to figure out if I want to stay here, or go someplace else. Building a network for sales makes it a fairly dreadful change of life, so who knows. I'm enjoying my motorcycle and the nice weather for riding these days. Oh, and of course cleaning up after my cats (joy!)

I'm really good at

Pretty much anything that involves strategy. I read most people pretty well, so any kind of games really. I'm fairly good at putting my thoughts into words, if I have time to think about them. I'm good at putting people at ease in tense situations and working through problems.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

My name. It takes a moment for them to catch on to how to say it. Visually, the shaved head. Seems like a lot of people enjoy touching it, go figure.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Ah, the good stuff. I prefer fantasy novels, and Margaret Weis and Tracy Hickman have been some of my favorite authors. Orson Scott Card's Ender series were fantastic and I still enjoy reading them as much today as I did when I was a kid. For movies, mostly the general guy type movies. The star wars/trek movies, the die hards, the lord of the rings. I also really enjoy movies like The Original Kings of Comedy and Rush Hour. For music, there's not much that I don't care for, but I prefer music that has a good sound to it. I don't care what they're talking about, it's the melody and the tone that really gets to me. Food? I'm always in favor of italian or just about anything with chicken. I occasionally like to have a good steak, but I hate getting let down by a bad one =(

The six things I could never do without

1) My phone. Salesman ya know. 2) Water. While I may not drink my 8 glasses, I still drink it more than anything else. 3) Friends. Hey, gotta have someone to bounce ideas off of, and tell about successes or failures. 4) My cats. They don't require too much attention, but are always there when it's time to go to bed :) 5) My computer. When you've got friends/family all over the world, it's a requirement! 6) My mind. Please oh please don't give me Alzheimers..

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Stuff. What is stuff you may ask? Primarily things I can't change. I like to ponder the way things are and what our perception of reality is. I like to consider what we may have wrong about...well everything. Religion, space, time, dimensions, people, etc. Pretty much the things that I may not (yet) be qualified to define an answer to.

Other than that, my job. Always another problem to solve.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either playing a game with some friends, or chillin readin a book. Occasionally we may go out for the evening to one of several bars or other locations though.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

Privacy? I'm pretty much an open book. There's not much I'm not willing to tell. Online though? Ask and ye shall receive...

You should message me if

You can hold a good conversation, you enjoy the possibilities in life, you like to smile and laugh, and you like sushi. (Ok the last one may not be a requirement...)

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