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59 • San Diego, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Mar 30
- Body type
I'm a happy guy that looks on the bright side of things. I understand that life isn't always good but I expect it to be good most of the time. Same thing with people, I look for the good in people and most of the time I find it. I have a good job that I enjoy but I'm looking forward to retirement is a few years. I think I'll be able to have a comfortable and active retirement phase of my life and look forward to going to school, travel, friends, etc. I'm in good shape, I don't exercise much but seem to stay in shape with pushups, & pullups, I walk a lot. I watch my diet closely to remain fit, and like people that care about themselves. I'm a partner dancer (swing) and sometimes travel to other states to dance. I have dance friends all over the country that I enjoy.
My family is very important to me. They live on the East Coast and I visit 2 or 3 times a year. We are close and supportive of each other. What else can I say? I like beautiful things like art, sunsets, music, etc. I'm fairly creative and like to build things and find answers to questions that maybe only I ask. I've been called a free spirit, and like new interesting things in my life.
I'm a cuddler and love to surf the couch and watch tv (it's better with a friend). I can't think of much else right now, how do you distill someone down to a few paragraphs? I guess we can just try.
I'm looking for a feminine woman that wants a man in her life, I'm comfortable in my masculinity and will assume that role in a partnership. Are you sweet and kind, can I love you and you me? I guess the most important thing I'm doing with my life is looking for you. Please come.
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