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38 M Somers, MT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 2
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I’ve tried writing this a hundred different ways. I think I’ll give open and honest a try this time. I won’t feed you a list of meaningless adjectives, or a line of BS, you’ve read on every other profile; rather, I’ll tell you a bit about the real me. I realize that according to the rules of online dating I’m supposed to be ultra-confident, totally content with my life and the direction it has taken, and here simply to meet new friends and maybe find someone to add to the perfection that is already my life. Isn’t that what we read on most of the other profiles? The truth is I’m a neurotic mess. There are parts of my life I’m happy with. There are parts that are seriously lacking, and I’m obsessed with filling the voids. I’m lonely. I want to find someone to fall insanely in love with. I want to find someone that falls insanely in love with me. I want a partner in crime. A soul mate. I want to come home to one beautiful, amazing woman every day and feel like the luckiest man in the world for it. I want to get married and start a family. I want to buy a house and start a college fund and take horrible family vacations where I say “don’t make me turn this car around” every ten miles until you threaten to divorce me if I don’t shut up. I want to get old, play scrabble on the porch and eventually die having lived a meaningful life full of love. I can’t think of a better way to spend my life. Is that too damn much to ask for? After all, what’s more important than love? Ok, maybe it’s a bit unrealistic, but can’t a guy dream?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reinventing it. I just moved to Montana from Texas, and I have an amazing opportunity to start fresh and be the man I've always wanted to be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
After revisiting my self summary, I would have to say I'm really good at being a bit too forthcoming with things I should probably keep to myself!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have no idea, but I would like to think that the first thing people notice is my devastating good looks. Ok, that's a load of crap. Maybe the first thing people notice is that I always look a little lost.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read way too much. My favorite book is Saint Maybe by Anne Tyler. I read everything from John Sanford's Prey series to Moby Dick which I reread every year or two. I always get something new out of it.

I love the opera. When I lived in Dallas, I went as often as possible.

I like acoustic, folky music like Jose Gonzalez and Neil Young. I love Pink Floyd.

I've been watching Breaking Bad, How I Met Your Mother, Raising Hope, and The Walking Dead on Netflix and Amazon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order: Mr Bubbles (Dr Bubbles on a bad day), good books, Juno on blu-ray, Dr Pepper, passionate kisses, chocolate chip cookies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My life -- what's missing, what's good, and what's bad. I spend time thinking about how to improve what's good, fix what's bad, and find what's missing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday night, but I'd like to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I never know what to say in a first email. I want to say something like "Wow! You're beautiful and I loved x, y, and z from your profile which I actually read because I'm not a total douche." I never say that though. Maybe I should give it a try.
You should message me if
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Anything I wrote resonates with you in any meaningful way.
You're a good listener.
You find me even slightly attractive.
You're not a "Woo" girl.
You're not looking for an 'until dawn do us part' relationship.