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38 Charlottesville, VA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 29
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm Sarah. Thanks for stopping by! I've been totally MIA on here for awhile, but now I'm settled in Cville and finally ready to think about this site again. I've been here for about 2 months now, but I've been in and out of town a lot during that time - so I really don't know very many people here yet. I'm honestly just as interested in meeting friends as I am in meeting a romantic partner.

So, what is my ideal guy like? Ideally, you're a nice, friendly guy who (in no particular order): tips well, returns shopping carts to their proper return location, likes animals, replies to texts and phone calls within a reasonable time frame... I don't know, most other things are negotiable! If you're someone who would enjoy renting an RV and taking a trip all around Montana, Wyoming etc, then that's a huge plus. :)

I'm a fun, caring person with a positive outlook on life. In my core, I'm a care-taker; I tend to do lots for other people and have a hard time being the person they do things for. I think that the purpose of life is to be happy, so I make happiness a priority and try not to dwell on the negatives. When I do get upset about something, I tend to vent really passionately to someone (in this scenario, that would be you) for about 2 to 5 minutes, and then I'm done. You can just be empathetic and say, "Yes, that sucks..." until I am finished. Then, I am usually over it.

I'm an introverted extrovert, a sucker for kids and animals. I'm a novice photographer with aspirations of greatness. I hate blue cheese, black licorice, and olives. I'm outgoing and friendly, and I speak my mind; I'm also sensitive, which is something people don't expect me to be. I give killer back rubs and love getting them too. I'm extremely socially liberal. I'm a cuddler. I am kind of disorganized, so you might have to help me search for my car keys or my coffee cup from time to time. Ok, every day… I am terribly uncoordinated. Putting one foot in front of the other without tripping is really all I can hope for. I know there're all sorts of codes for guys to figure out what girls bodies are really like in online dating profiles, but they are beyond me. I don't know what average or curvy really mean, but I fall somewhere in that range, which means that if you're a boob guy then I might be your type! ;)

I have cats and guinea pigs. It all started with classroom pets and me being a total softie when it comes to animals; I'd love to get a dog someday, once I have a house with a yard. So, if furry things make you sneeze, I'm probably not the gal for you.
What I’m doing with my life
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being happy - that's all that matters really
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... teaching, helping people, Boggle, doodling, listening, making people feel comfortable, solving problems... I'm sure there are other things that I just can't think of.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my energy, my Tina Fey glasses, and my breasts. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - Fletch & Caddyshack
Books - The Great Gatsby, The Help, A Short History of Nearly Everything, Look Me in the Eye...
Shows: Arrested Development, The Following, The Blacklist, NCIS, How I Met Your Mother
Food: Italian, Mexican, Sushi, Indian...
Music: Tom Petty is my FAVE
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
- My best friend and her two boys, my nephews. (Ok, I know that's 3, but they're a package deal.)
- My iPhone
- Pets
- Blistex Herbal Answer lip balm
- Reusable water bottles
- A comfy bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Trips I want to take, what I'm going to have for dinner, how much I hate most politicians, when this winter will ever end, the areas of C'ville in which I should be looking for houses, cool cameras I wish I had...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This question is kind of funny to me because what any of us do on a typical Friday night while single is probably pretty different from what we would do if we were in a committed relationship. Here's what I would like to be doing on a typical Friday night, once I find an awesome guy:

- Dinning out, then watching a movie at home on the couch
- Having some beers at a bar with a group of friends - mine or yours or both
- Cooking dinner at home
- Drinking lots of wine
- Heading out of town for the weekend
- Playing pool
- Dinning with friends
- Doing our own thing sometimes, with the girls or guys
- Staying in bed ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I haven't had a "serious" relationship in a long time; I was too caught up in my work, and I worked too much. Then, I started having all sorts of crazy health problems, brought on/exacerbated by my lifestyle. I've made a lot of major life changes over the past three years, such as quitting my all-consuming job and becoming a private tutor. Health-wise, I'm much better but still working on it. I'm determined to get back to the point where I can do more of the things I love.

This experience definitely changed my life for the better though, since my priorities totally changed and I'm MUCH happier now!
You should message me if
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You want to meet a spunky, nurturing, comedy-loving, Boggle pro, and if you think we'll get along!