I am an easy going, funny, attractive, love-life, communicative, grateful, fun, sassy, flirty woman. I've been married once and have no kids. I like kids but do not plan on making any of my own.

I like nice things but they do not define me. I'm learning more about living and being more GREEN.. I love to point out the beauty I see in others. I meditate.

I am blessed with many true friends. My life is full and fun. I do not need a man to "complete me," nor do I want a man who needs completing.

I am the opposite of an Asian woman...so, if you're super-mostly attracted to Asian women, I'm most likely NOT your type. I'm curvy, gregarious, outspoken and bold.

I am super-mostly attracted to European guys and regular white guys with "an edge"...between the ages of 35-52ish... I am not attracted to Indian, Asian or African American men...sorry, but that is what it is!

I am honest, friendly and real. I am open to possibility and abundance...I am optimistic and energetic. I am passionate! I am dedicated to the transformation of my mind, body and spirit. I am inspired by nature, music, art, and enlightened human beings.

I am an exercise enthusiast by morning, a residential Realtor by day and a stand-up comedienne by night. I'm staying healthy. I'm doing my best for the good of the planet...I'm being intentional about meeting like-minded people...I'm always learning and growing...

coming up with big ideas, making people feel comfortable...starting conversations, flirting, problem solving, making people laugh, leading a conga line, giving compliments, planning parties, selling, and anything creative...

the magnetic pull of my positive energy and light...

hummm...maybe they don't actually notice that part...so, I guess, they notice my smile and my eyes.

Books:"A Prayer for Owen Meany" or any other weird reads by John Irving, all books by Michael Crichton, any How-To books on business, relationships, organizing, cleaning, simplifying, selling, speaking, etc...Self Improvement books; Eckhart Tolle "The Power of Now" and "A New Earth" and any books about enlightenment and spirituality..."The Four Agreements" Also, I like to read about diet and nutrition: The China Study, Rawsome, Green for Life

Movies: "Usual Suspects","Super Bad","Tombstone", "Go!", "Zoolander","Glengarry, Glen Ross", "Snatch", Shawshank Redemption", "Amelie", "One True Thing","A Simple Plan" "High Fidelity", Meet the Parents, "Pulp Fiction", "What Love is", "Dogma", "The Recruit", "Rounders","Crash", "The Game", "Unfaithful", "Sliding Doors", "Goodwill Hunting", "Juno", "In My Shoes,""Kingpin", "Little Miss Sunshine", "Fargo" Malice, ...I like soooo many movies! All Ben Stiller stuff...Owen Wilson, Ed Harris, Mike Meyers, Cameron Diaz, Ed Norton, Nick Cage, Will Ferrel, Tommy Lee Jones...Oh, and documentaries---LOVE them and love to learn! Ok, I can go on and on...but I won't...*Just no horror movies (waste of adrenal energy, in my opinion)...

I don't watch much TV, however, when I do, I enjoy: Prison Break, Two and a Half Men, The Office, Oprah, Dateline, 30 Rock, "Planet Earth," and Family Guy

Music: Anything/everything with a good beat! I love to dance! Anything from the '80s...house, pop, rock, jazz...AC/DC, Sheryl Crow, Annie Lennox, Squeeze, James Taylor, Tracy Chapman, Harry Connick Jr., Billie Holiday, James Blunt, Sade, Counting Crows, Foreigner, Doobie Brothers, Pink, Gwen Stefani, Sting, Smash Mouth, Madonna, Janet Jackson to name a few...

Food: Fresh, raw, organic, locally grown fruits and vegetables! I also enjoy Italian, Japanese, Indian, Thai, Mexican...oh heck, I guess I like almost everything...even Ethiopian!)

good health
good humor
good friends
good music
living with purpose
intellectual conversation
sunshine and moonshine (not the booze)
fresh, organic, raw fruits and veggies
water (drinking and ocean)
kissing (soft/slow and hard/passionate)
nature
sex

ok, so I may need more than six things...oops

...how I can make a difference in this world...how I can win the war against dust mites...how I can improve myself...how I can best help other people...how Pet Rocks became so popular...

"chillaxing..." and going with the flow...

I want to love and be loved...everything else is just noise.

...you're a confident, intelligent, articulate, mature man (between the ages of 35-52ish) with a great sense of humor...you're interested in getting to know me beyond this profile...you're intellectually stimulating...you're a gentleman and have good table etiquette...you can be spontaneous and you can plan ahead...you would notice if my car tires were low...you can help me with my computer challenges...you're a good communicator and a good listener...you're an optimist...you are a responsible adult but not too serious to act like a goofy kid sometimes...you'd stop the car and help me rescue a stray dog...you are emotionally available and ready to share your heart with someone special...you're deeper than a bird bath...you are kind...you wear white t-shirts under your white dress shirts...you're a big tipper...you look damn good in a pair of jeans...you are healthy and take care of yourself...you can tie a cherry stem in a knot with your tongue...you're not threatened by a strong, outgoing woman...you know what you want in a partner and in life...you recycle...you're done playing games...you don't need coffee to be cheery in the morning...you're a good kisser...you're not easily embarrassed...you want to fill up my IPod with the music that inspires you...you'd wear a costume or a funny wig to a themed party, accordingly...you want to make a difference with your life...you can be vulnerable...you don't care what other people think about you...you like to "spoon"...you did well on the "Commonly Confused Words" test and you know how to properly use the words, "your" and "you're" in a sentence...you'd catch an avocado if I threw one to you from across the produce department...you're not afraid of spiders of any size...you expect great things to happen...

Ok, that MAY be asking too much...so message me if you think that you can make me laugh...and just know that I appreciate the above mentioned qualities in a man...

Please DO NOT message me if: your age starts with a "2"...you live in another country and think we can have a meaningful relationship via web cam...you are sexually aroused by things that are illegal in more than 7 states...you live in an area where 74% of the homes are in foreclosure...you're hiding most of your face under a beard...you litter...you're attracted to the "damsel in distress" type...you absolutely love Nascar racing...or, if you consider fingernails one of the major food groups...