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HappyHubris

27 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 10:31am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a freshly-minted New Yorker, having recently moved here from the Rust Belt. It feels like I've finally found a home grand enough to satiate my curiosity and contain my enthusiasm.

I'm social, rewarding, and generally indomitable. I will talk to you on the subway. I will stop to pet your dog. I will drive your getaway car, firing a tommy gun at johnny law. Think of me as your Swiss Army Knife with various ways to add a touch of color to everyday living.

My modus operandi is very much "playful adult". Wearing a suit and dealing with worldly concerns is no reason to pass up the potential joy and expression all around us. Life is too short to focus on points A and B at the exclusion of all else. Unless you're Apple Maps, in which case you should really focus on the basics first. (And congrats on the sentience.)

If you're familiar with Myers-Briggs, I'm very much an ENFP. If you've never heard of MBTI, fear not; I come with a manual:
http://www.personalitypage.com/ENFP.html
http://www.personalitypage.com/html/ENFP_rel.html
(While I'm not defined by four letters, a rough idea of what you're getting yourself into will help both of us out.)

Come, get caught up in my hubris.
What I’m doing with my life
Professionally, I'm toiling away in the depths of one of New York's banking beasts. It's not existentially fulfilling, but we all need a way to pay the bills.

Personally, I'm growing, exploring, experiencing, and savoring. New York is gleefully stimulating place, and I wish I had several dozen lifetimes to spend learning about every nook and cranny. So many energizing people; so little time...
I’m really good at
Leaving New York a bit kinder than I found it.

Weaving playfulness and humor into everyday life.

Coaxing people outside of their comfort zones.

Rocking the Economist's online comments.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height, affability, and warmth are all possibilities.

Update - When asked, one of my closest friends answered with the following:

"Your demeanor...Most people aren't that forthcoming and friendly, and when they are they usually want something.

Not you, unless there's something you've been trying to tell me all these years. ;)"
The six things I could never do without
People, in their infinite variety
Creatures, great and small
Adventures, from the mundane to the marvelous
The written word
Pragmatism, romanticism, and optimism, oh my!
New York Metro system
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything! My mind is never idle. Sometimes politics, economics, or philosophy. Sometimes I'm visualizing how the people around me would look in funny hats. Often I'm playing with language and imagining how shifting a few words or massaging a meaning could reshape a situation. Thinking about thinking is also a huge favorite. It's really a grab bag.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either being an instigator or soaking up culture. Maybe both.

On the scant few days I'm out early, I love to cook something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Be forewarned; I can be severely addicting.

Without fail, I will throw myself against a "pull" door or tug tremendously at a "push" door. I'm smooth like that.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you live in a rent-controlled apartment and believe in love at first sight.

If you're interested in getting off the internet and doing something tangible! New York is awash with events and places to explore, and I'm always looking for a partner-in-crime.

If going on dates is a fun means to an end for you and not a lifestyle.

Myers-Briggs INF types make me swoon; deep conversation is my drug.

You're brainy, curious, and enriching; I want to grow with my partner and encourage her success. Or at least cheer her up during her downfall and the subsequent trial.

If the English language is your bitch.