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The name happypizzabear has no distinct meaning to me. It rolls off
of the tongue nicely enough and it consists of familiar
I'm a Christian. My faith is important to me. I try to live it out
as much as I can. There is no Jesus fish on my car. I don't listen
to CCM or family life radio. If someone knows about my faith, I
don't want it to be because of my T-shirt or bumper sticker.
I am not a political person. I realized a while ago that the
commandment to love my neighbor was simple, direct and of upmost
importance. Politics these days seem to dwell on friction. It is
easier for me to focus on what is truly important when I tune out
I like to have an informed perspective and to think about things as
deeply and accurately as I am able to. Knowledge is important to
me, it makes other aspects of life richer, it is also portable and
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm playing bass and guitar in a band. I don't know if I'm
passionate about music, but I don't think I'm going to stop. I play
guitar, bass, ukulele. My musical education is sub-par, but still
functional, I regard it as sort of a journey. I enjoyed touring
with the band during the last two summers and I hope to
I'm self employed. I'm gaining stability, trying to make up for
lost time. I had a difficult stretch of frustrating circumstances,
I'm beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I've
learned a lot along the way.
I'm trying to find a wife. The family jewels are like a ball and
chain without someone to work out the inescapable desires with. I'm
not looking to be completed, I'm not looking to complete you. I am
looking for someone to make a home with that is a friend close
enough to be intimate with. I'm intent on approaching love and life
always rejecting expectation and premonitions, in preference for
valuing whatever I find life to consist of.
I’m really good at
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I play guitar, the ukulele and play with some other stringed
instruments as well.
I have a background in art. I do a lot of little creative projects
and DIY things. Art is not what I do for a living, but I still make
quite a few sculptures and drawings.
I fix everything I can. I like to make things. I use a lot of
things people throw out. I don't go overboard with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. I'm a big soft spoken guy who doesn't say much unless
I've got a grip on what I'm talking about. I've got dreadlocks and
facial hair. When I dressed more conventionally people would always
say I looked like Drew Carey, that got old. I feel like I gave it a
solid shot at being a normal guy with the business casual, short
hair thing. I found it better to identify with the bums. It seems
like people cut their hair, choose their attire, abort their
children and define their lifestyles according totheir expectation
of money and pursuit of it. That seems like idolatry to me, count
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have been using Pandora for a long time. I hone my stations in.
If there is anything I feel like listening to I can usually find it
and have some relevant variety. I enjoy music in community from
friends and acquaintances. I'm not listing artists, that becomes
tedious. My taste in music is great, don't worry.
I have Netflix, Amazon prime video on demand, YouTube, and whatever
else. I don't watch movies all the time, occasionally I will have
times where I watch several.
I read competently, and I enjoy books, but I find that audio is
very nice also. I get as much from audio as I do from text and I
find that the audio format is more compatible with
I see myself drifting away from ready made culture. I have my old
favorites, but music I'm exposed to through community becomes more
important. Music that invokes some association or feeling, or has
some resonant meaning with the time is more appealing than
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2.Access to information
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't know what this question means. I don't regard thinking as a
task, it never stops, except to sleep, even then, dreams come.
Thinking seems more like a fire, sometimes blazing, sometimes
crackling along, sometimes just an ember waiting for the wind to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know, I haven't kept a log of Friday nights. I'm game for
anything. Let's get some coffee/tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I use alcohol, tobacco, and marijuana. This by association appears
more debaucherous than my pattern of use. The alcohol and marijuana
reduce REM sleep. The tobacco promotes orexin production and is
mildly stimulating. I have narcolepsy, and my regular meds are very
helpful, but these substances used strategically are very
beneficial. In case you haven't noticed yet, our medical system is
an immense burden upon people with chronic illnesses. The
medication prescribed to narcoleptics to take on the excess REM
sleep costs like $4000 for a ten day supply. Given that, I'm very
thankful to have Mmj and alcohol available.
I think it's the work of the devil to complicate and vilify
anything that facilitates community. Smoking a pipe is very nice,
it's like a fragrant little bonfire. Passing a joint around is
communal, moral character remains intact, conversation is stirred.
Drinking is nice too, there is a sweet spot, and with self control
one can loosen up and not be turnt. I'm not so hung up this as the
abundance of words may imply; I'm tired of the conversation ending
when this comes up. I don't think being a good Christian is about
avoiding things. I don't think it's appropriate to act as if the
Lord is somehow impotent in a person's life because of a molecule
in their bloodstream.
You should message me if
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Just message me. In my experience on dating sites, women seem to be
too reserved about messaging. I understand being cautious, but this
has to be balanced with the objective of finding someone. It seems
better to send and receive plenty of messages and see if any of
them lead to anything.
I think I'm a pretty safe guy to message. I might look a little
stern, but I think most people I know would say I'm a nice
I'm open to different "types". I think that chemistry between
people doesn't always have to seem predictable to actually come
about. We learn things from each other and share interests as time
goes on. We are already likely to be interested in different
things. Having a functional relationship is more important than
listening to the same music and whether or not we both like sports.
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