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HardestWalk

41 Toronto, Ontario, CA Cis Man

Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I had pretty cool parents, so I made it through childhood without any racism, homophobia, transphobia, or misogyny at home and it rubbed off. I've considered myself a feminist since I first heard the word; when I hated sports, my mom introduced me to musical theatre; I got a nose piercing and dyed my hair pink. (I no longer perform theatre, have piercings, or dye my hair. Just a lonely tattoo.) Growing up, I could read any book I wanted regardless of its language and content. (I read Cujo at age 8 thanks to a loan from grandma!) I think I turned out okay.

I also know how to dance a bit (Lindy hop and blues), so there's that. And before you read further you need to know three things: I have cats, silly hobbies and a SO who isn't going anywhere.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Things I do with no regularity: travel, scuba dive, dance and run... And watch Netflix. Lots of Netflix.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty decent at keeping calm under pressure (even at gunpoint), typing with a cat on my wrists, and I make a kick ass sazerac.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's probably that I talk to people who have yet to have their morning coffee and I refuse to learn that this is a bad idea. If I sleep in, I probably haven't shaved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I need to shorten this. Scroll down really fast if you want a little mystery.

Books: Recent ones: Girl on a Train, Young God, The Martian, Edible Woman
Movies: I like most genres of film, as long as there's a strong narrative, and all the John Hughes films. If you suggest a movie, chances are that I'll go see it with you.
TV: The Fall, The Bridge, Parenthood, The Good Wife, and those HBO ones.
Music: I realized recently that, while I used to be quite up on music, I am no longer. Any recommendations?
Artists/Designers: Peter Saville, Margaret Killgallen (I have a tattoo of one of her drawings), Chris Ware, Vaughn Oliver, Robert Mcginnis, and Rodrigo Corral.
Comedians: Tig Notaro, Mike Birbiglia, Maria Bamford, Eugene Mirman, Jen Kirkman, Amy Schumer, John Mulaney, and Mitch Hedberg.
Podcasts: James Bonding, Savage Love, Judge John Hodgman, Worst Idea of All Time, Say Wha?!, and the one I make (which is less than stellar, and in not being self-effacing.)
Fonts: Electra, Fairfield and Metro (W.A. Driggins); Gill Kayo; Bureau Grotesque; and the non-digitized Tempo Light and Sill TV Square Gothic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beyond the usual basics:
• things that hold my interest
• affectionate people (and cats)
• good books
• music to dance to
• and New York City
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Typography, Photoshop and composition, and why my desk is a perpetual mess at home, but super neat at work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
About the only constant is that I'll likely start my night with a cocktail (a lazy Manhattan or Old Fashioned if I don't feel like getting too fancy). I've been working all week, so I deserve it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't really like eating with other people. I don't dislike it, I'd just rather spend my time doing anything but.
You should message me if
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you can suggest an amazing book;
you know some kick-ass running music;
you nerd out about something;
you know who Dan Savage is (or better still, Sex Nerd Sandra); or
you're the darling of the discotheque crowd.

But let's just do tea (or coffee) first.

I tend to write brief messages, mostly. Blame text messaging and/or Tinder. And writing long emails reminds me of work.

I really the social aspect of dating and I enjoy meeting/dating new people. I'm looking for someone who wants to catch a movie, take a dances class, or just grab a cup of tea and complain about their day and, if there's chemistry, see where it goes.