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Hardley_Workin

68 M Los Gatos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 17
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm working on this section, but you should know I'm an Olympic Class Procrastinator thinking of going pro (I've got to contact 5 new people to reach profile completion ... maybe tomorrow!).

How about a really short self-summary? I was born, I went to school, I went to work, I retired, I died ... although I've not finished the sequence yet, that about sums it up!

Okay, maybe a little more detail...

Off topic but, I was always taught in school that there were no stupid questions. After going through 2100+ okcupid questions, I have discovered there are A WHOLE LOT of stupid questions!

Still off topic but, that Staff Robot has a few screws loose or is due for a programming upgrade in his match results.

Okay, back on topic. I retired in 2003 and before that spent 21 some odd years as a computer programmer in the medical industry. Before that, for 8 years or so, I was a contractor with my own cabinet shop where I learned I was a awesome cabinet maker but a terrible terrible businessman. Going back even further to my younger years, I was pretty much a adrenaline junkie - skydiver, scuba diver, hang glider, bungee jumper, soldier...

Got distracted, more to come later...
What I’m doing with my life
I am retired and being really lazy (I read a lot so is that being lazy?). I'm okay with that most of the time but once in a while I do feel a little guilty.

As of 5+ years ago, I'm not doing TV in my life. Still have the TV and a DVD player but no cable, antenna, or satellite dish and thus no broadcast TV. I don't miss it one tiny bit!

I get out on 3-4 day camping/fishing trips regularly. No backpacking though. I haul my gear in a truck and stay in campgrounds.

Daily, I've been doing a lot more walking lately.

I try very hard to not worry or obsess about the past or things I can not change and just enjoy each day as it presents itself.
I’m really good at
The "really" gets me as I think I'm good at many things but maybe not really good at anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are Science Fiction and I'm not picky. I will admit to reading both the Twilight series and the Hunger Games series and found them entertaining. Someone just loaned me the Harry Potter series and am really liking them so far. I don't go out to movies much at all but do watch them on DVD once in a while. Favorite movie is probably The African Queen... or Serenity (how is that for a pair!). I don't do live shows or theater. Music would be Classic Rock but again, I'm not real picky. The only food I don't really enjoy, but still try once in a while, is ethnic Indian cuisine. Asian cuisine is probably my favorite. Back to books and movies. I read books and watch movies to be entertained and nothing more.
The six things I could never do without
I actually thought about this question for a while before I answered and I did not come up with anything "I could never do without". I read "could never do without" as meaning if I did find myself "without" I'd go insane, or just end it all right then and there. But I'm pretty sure I could adjust. I would not be as happy, but I could cope "without". I am also assuming that "things" DO NOT include elements needed for me to exist like air, water, food, shelter, etc.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
You know, that's a problem with me. I spend a lot of time thinking about things but then I never seem to do those things.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am home alone by choice. I describe myself as a reclusive hermit (I know, that's probably redundant) but that is not a complete exaggeration. Also, being retired, the specific day of the week really does not matter. Fridays and the weekends and the rest of the week have no special significance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not willing to admit to anything private here. This would be a much more interesting question if they would replace "private" with "embarrassing".
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–68
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
this "About" section I filled out sparks an interest AND you are not looking for a relationship but just a friend to hang out with once in a while. I could probably say that better so I'll think about it and see if I can come up with something else later.