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54 • M • Astoria, OR
- Last Online
- Aug 14
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
I constantly listen to books when I drive.
The ocean and beaches
A great blues riff
My air guitar
My real guitar
A car for road trips
A woman that likes tools
Sarcastic, yet playful non-hurtful banter
The other day I was driving across a bridge by Astoria. The shoulder was very narrow. There were two bicyclists riding the same direction as I. I passed the first rider, a woman, as I approached the second (a man) I noticed an object lying in the bike lane. It wasn't remarkable, but posed a possible hazard. I watched the man turn and look back at the woman and the object and I could see the concern on his face. It was a look of deep love. He was more concerned with her safety than his own. I don't quite know how to tell you I knew it was love and concern, but I recognized it absolutely. THAT, is what I seek. To Love, and trust outside and above my own self. It is more that I am longing to learn to be more selfless and giving so that I am capable of that "Bike rider moment".
It has been suggested to me that the last paragraph makes it sound as if I am seeking "THE ONE" I guess in a round about way that is true, but I am not looking for "THE ONE" or my "SOUL MATE" I am looking for good open minded people to spend a bit of time with. To be challenged, motivated, inspired. The other stuff will just happen when we least expect it to, or when we quit looking for IT. Hope that makes sense?????????
It gets described many different ways on this and other sites. "My best friend, my soul mate, the Love of my life......etc......" But words can not aptly paint the picture, it is so much more.
The trust aspect is not about being told the truth, or not being lied to, it is about trusting that one can be vulnerable. Vulnerable to feel, and reveal yourself to the other and knowing that you will not be judged and that ones quirks, and oddities will be treated as sacrosanct. We will not try to change each other, but to inspire each other to be more. We will not argue, but we will never shy away from debate or allowing that we have differing views, because we will honor our differences as much as we celebrate our similarities.
I am still searching for the words............I am still searching for the selflessness that comes from trusting vulnerable Love. I am still searching for you.
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 42–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
You like tools
You are easily amused
You want to know more
You would like to go dancing
You would like to go to the theater
You just want to
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