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53 / M / Straight / Single
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- Yesterday – 10:06am
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m).
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Agnosticism and laughing about it
- Pisces and it’s fun to think about
- Dropped out of college/university
- Construction / Craftsmanship
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
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The ocean and beaches
The other day I was driving across a bridge by Astoria. The shoulder was very narrow. There were two bicyclists riding the same direction as I. I passed the first rider, a woman, as I approached the second (a man) I noticed an object lying in the bike lane. It wasn't remarkable, but posed a possible hazard. I watched the man turn and look back at the woman and the object and I could see the concern on his face. It was a look of deep love. He was more concerned with her safety than his own. I don't quite know how to tell you I knew it was love and concern, but I recognized it absolutely. THAT, is what I seek. To Love, and trust outside and above my own self.
It gets described many different ways on this and other sites. "My best friend, my soul mate, the Love of my life......etc......" But words can not aptly paint the picture, it is so much more.
The trust aspect is not about being told the truth, or not being lied to, it is about trusting that one can be vulnerable. Vulnerable to feel, and reveal yourself to the other and knowing that you will not be judged and that ones quirks, and oddities will be treated as sacrosanct. We will not try to change each other, but to inspire each other to be more. We will not argue, but we will never shy away from debate or allowing that we have differing views, because we will honor our differences as much as we celebrate our similarities.
I am still searching for the words............I am still searching for the selflessness that comes from trusting vulnerable Love. I am still searching for you.
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