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HarloweGene

26 / F / bisexual / Seeing someone

Winnetka, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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I am feisty, nerdy, and vague.

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My Self-Summary

Purple. Because ice cream has no bones. Formed of deities, pie and the wideeyedwonder (tm) of something small and probably fuzzy. I'm too big for my britches and too small for anyone elses. I'm good at not making sense. Successfully escaped from Tatooine and Cookiecutterbibletown; now living in the suburban sprawl of the City of Angelicallycokedoutpeople. They say you can tell a lot about people by where they have lived. It seems I am sandy, on meth and full of hobos. Hmmm. I like spoons. I hate profiles. And mushrooms.

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What I’m doing with my life

Majoring in psychology and addiction studies with a minor in ohgoddon'tmakemegrowup. I recently learned how to ride horses, so if the psych thing falls through, I'm going to be John Wayne. Leathery face optional.

I’m really good at

Being silly? Telling seriously terrible jokes? Being female? The Jedi mind trick? Reading playing cards like tarot? OOO! Wearing pants! If nothing else, I have that whole breathing thing down.

The first things people usually notice about me

My hair. Always the hair. Maybe the face craters, but as long as I pretend they don't exist, we are good.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A)Tam Lin. Lathe Of Heaven. House of Leaves. (... ha. If you've read it, you'll get the double bracketedness) Weaveworld. The Dubious Hills. Lord of the Rings. Haunted. I tend to gravitate toward fantasy and have recently falling for Charles De Lint's urban fantasy, particularly Memory and Dream. I am a sucker for fairy tales, both original and the fancypants modern tellings. I am apparently six years old. B)Garden State, Hook, Cat Soup, Gattaca, Labyrinth, Memento, Peter Pan, Vanilla Sky, Pan's Labyrinth I also like to indulge in the occasional "chick flick" but don't tell my uterus! C)My tastes vary depending on place and mood, and to say they are eclectic is a bit of an understatement. My current favorites are Goldfrapp, Muse, Portishead, Hooverphonic, Ray Lamontagne, Damien Rice, Beth Orton, Shivaree, Kidneythieves and Fleetwood Mac. This will change by tomorrow. D)I love food. Let me get that out of the way. I can never pin down a favorite because I love food. Among my current favorites are Vegas rolls, Monte Cristo sandwiches, cantaloupe, hostess cupcakes (orange and chocolate. I am no flavorist).

The six things I could never do without

My towel, my journal, battered (no! much loved!) copy of Tam Lin, my ring, words

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Carnies. Shameless plugs. Why my feet are always cold.

On a typical Friday night I am

Trying not to fall to the Dark Side. Schooling noobs at Rock Band and Guitar Hero. Spending time with friends and quoting random things. "Where did you get that preposterous hypothesis? Did Steve tell you that?"

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

When alone, sleep with a light on.

You should message me if

You know, I used to have "You want to?" in this space. I think I need to expand on that a bit. I like meeting new people, but seriously. *points up* That whole "Seeing Someone" thing? I'm seeing someone. I'm here for friendship and pen pals; just pretend I'm a fifth grader in this regard. No, I don't want to hook up. No, I don't want to cyber. Sorry, but I don't answer to "BB." *waves hand* This is not the BB you are looking for. With that said, I love bad jokes; if you know one I'd love to expand my repertoire.

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